im 16 and i dont know how to tell my mother that i am bisexual she is a very geligious person and im scrared?

Question

i think she suspects of thi

Answer 1

You are scared because you know your mother is right. You are confused. You should not be thinking of such things at your age. You are young and confused. Stop what you are doing and get more education. Wait to make those kinds of decisions when you are an adult.

You really need to pray about this.
G.G.

Answer 2

I agree with bejeweled22. How do you really know that at 16. It is a confusing age where most kids have doubts about their sexuality. During my senior year I actually had a bit of a crush on a friend. I wondered about it then but then I moved on and now know, without a doubt that I like men (my husband especially). Give yourself some time before telling your mother anything. Be sure of it first.

Answer 3

First I suggest you learn how to create a proper sentence. It should read:
I am a sixteen year old bi-sexual; I am scared to tell my mother, because she is very religious. Can anyone give me some advice to gently let her know that my views differ from hers? I think she may already suspect that I'm not straight.

That would be much better than your horrible grammar. Honestly, if you were my daughter or son, I'd be more worried that you were ill-educated than if you had sex with men and women.

Answer 4

looks to me that now that your brother has outed you to her, the purely component left so as that you'll be able to do is to renowned what she already is familiar with. IOW, you aren't to any extent further quite breaking any information to her. She's already informed you that she will be able to proceed to love you unconditionally, no remember what, so what are you fearful of? in case you nevertheless disclaim it, she'll only figure its because you're ashamed of who you're -- that is going to purely verify her perception that being gay or bi is a nasty component and some thing to experience embarrassment about. So the question so as that you'll be able to answer for your self is - -ARE you ashamed of being bi, and of being in a courting with yet another boy? Or are you pleased with who you're as a smooth bisexual guy? the respond to that question will make sure what you do -- no matter if you're taking a seat and characteristic an man or woman communication consisting of your mom (and doubtless help dispel lots of the unfavorable stereotypes she's unthinkingly obtained through the years about homosexuality) - or no matter if you nevertheless cover in shame.

Answer 5

I wish there was an easy answer to this... know that if your mother has religious objections to your sexual orientation any negative reaction she has is likely based in fear and concern for you.

I would suggest you first get a hold of your local chapter of PFLAG, or some other GLBT support organization. Find someone there you can talk to, they'll be able to give you the support you need.

Answer 6

I think right now you are in a bad spot to say anything, only because if she flips out and puts you out the house, your screwed. Do you know for sure? Have you been with another female? If not, then you are bi-curious, and there's no need to say anything.......if you have been with a female and know for sure that you are bi-sexual, then just come on out and tell her......if she is very religious, she will not judge you, but then again, most religious people are the ones who judge more harshly!!! Good luck, if you need to talk check my profile and email or im me!!!! Good luck!!

Answer 7

If you think she's going to freak out, wait to tell her until you're an adult (18). She may suspect it now, but I wouldn't say anything unless she asks you straight up. Don't listen to the person that told you not to "ruin your life" with your sexuality. What you do in bed is nobody's business but yours. Good luck.

Answer 8

I am 32 years old and my family has just learned that I am Bi. I was very surprised by their support. Remember that your sexuality does not effect the type of person that you are. Your mom might be a little upset at first, but she loves you and will learn to accept your lifestyle!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

coming from someone who is a lesbian, u r not going to feel free until u tell her. believe me, it is better to get it out than have to keep hiding it, no matter what the outcome is. my mother is very religious also, and she handled it pretty well. just tell her that this is what makes u happy, and that is all she should want for u. it shouldn't matter who your with, as long as they treat u good. that is all that should matter. give her time to accept it. and believe me mom's aren't stupid, she probably already suspects it. good luck.

Answer 10

Dear 16'
One's sexual orientations are private property. No one has the right to interfere even if it is your mother. Keep your secrets to yourself and enjoy your sexual life. You don't have to tell any of your parents.......And don't forget that religion has always been an obstacle to the pleasure of the flesh.
Good luck
Hamedoth