If your friends are fighting and your not part of it, but want to remain friends with both...?

Question

Ok my sis's boyfriend had this Rap group called Luzenet. The group split up and now there is a fight between the guys that quit and the the others. I am friends with all of them. How do I not get caught in the middel and stay frinds with both groups?

Answer 1

Tell both groups that you don't want to get caught in the middle, and that you don't want to hear it from either side. You would like to stay friends with both groups, but do not want to take sides.
If they persist on talking behind their backs to you, then you will break the friendship, even tho you like both groups.

Answer 2

Girlfriend, stay out of their mess. And when either side bring up the situation say, “can we all get along?” and leave it at that. That usually will stop there effort of dishing out information, trying to sway you to their side. But, if it doesn’t, simply tell them that you will remain friends with all and you have nothing to do with their business.

Have you ever thought about this…you may be the one link that will connect the group back together, if not as a group, at least friendly towards each other? “Blessed are the peace makers.”

Be blessed in keeping the peace.

Answer 3

I was kind of in the same situation, My two best friends decided that they didn't like each other anymore, and that left me smack dab in the middle. This is my advice, whatever you do don't pick sides, still hang out with both groups, but let them know that you didn't have anything to do with whatever they are fighting about, and you don;t want anything to do with it. If they are true friends they will understand, and leave you out of it.

Answer 4

well you know you can't help it...I ve been in the exact same situ...this big group of ppl split up and both groups were my friends...and they bitched abt the others when i was ther..so what I did was I got them to confront eachother and sort it out...middle is the wrst place to be, but even if they didnt become as close as they were they atleast dont ***** abt each other anymore and u cant actually count on two of ur friends to like each other so...convince them to make peace at least...hope it wrks out...

Answer 5

Do not get involved if they say something about the fight. Its not a problem to stay friends with them, just tell them you dont want to hear anything about the conflict.

Answer 6

well dont pick sides, dont mention a group while with the other and make it clear to everybody that you aren't picking sides and will remain friends with everybody. you will get aught in the middle if you attempt to make the groups reconciliate but if you just dont get involved with the fight at all you will be fine.

Answer 7

Ask them to talk to each other about why they quit the band. Maybe they can become friends again and their band will be back together. But if they don't want to talk then don't push them too. If they don't become friends don't be stressed and hang out with them at different times.

Answer 8

Good for you! Stay friends with them all but if one of them crosses the line and starts gossiping about the other/others then put your foot down and tell them you are not getting involved in their bickering. If they don't get the message then you will have to break it off with that person.

Good luck!
G.G.

Answer 9

Well, first make sure whenever somebody is ragging on the other say, "i am always here for you to listen to what you have to say, buit you are putting me a situation where I would have to choose between very good friends, and then ask them to stop. Also, if they ver ask you who you believe, say you believe they are both your friends and you don't want to be tron between the two...Hope this helps! MayMay

Answer 10

If two of your best friends start fighting you should break it up. And keep them away from each anther. And let them know that even thought they don't like each you are still going to be both of thier friends.