There are 5 ppl i consider as really close friends...and two of them celebrate thier b'days, one in Jan and the other in march... and for their bdays nobody was bothered to shop for them or so it seemed so i felt so bad and i made cards for them and told the others to sign and all but I find out later that four of them have indeed pooled in and got them gifts...one an i pod nano and the other a really expensive watch...but they didnt tell me..and i dont know why...i've always tried to be there for them, done a lot of **** for them sacrificed my time, energy and everything, and the most humiliating thing was that i had made them cards...out of paper glitter and pens...I felt sooo stupid... are they really my friends?? Im sooo lost...i care a lot for them...but i feel so betrayed....And im not in any financila difficulties that i couldnt contribute..
i dont know what to do
2006-06-16 06:44:42 · 6 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say its time to find new friends!!
2006-06-16 06:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, they are your friends, Just relax. You may have a big mouth and thats why they could not tell you. Your cards mean everything, because you were sincere. Call them and let them know they forgot to tell you, and if there reaction is not okay, then see why, then forget about them.
2006-06-16 06:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them what thier problem is. if they deny that somethings wrong then ask them whyt hey didnt invite you to go in on the gift...that you would have and wanted to. if they give you a bunch of sh*t than yes, they are not worth your time. maybe they have a logical excuse, but im not sure what it could be. talk to them - c whats up
2006-06-16 06:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and if they are really the friends you think they are they won't care,isn't it the thought that counts not the amount of money you can spend?
2006-06-16 06:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they do that to u then ur too good for them...they probably think there all that and they are as hot as hell but if they act that way dont hang out with them
2006-06-16 06:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by koda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur story just like me hey dont leave ur friend friends just like gift on you just still await for time...............
2006-06-16 07:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋