m i guilty?

Question

U know its real weird for me.and never happened before...
i feel ashame and being stupid and guilty as well ...
suddenly i feel that im bit more wild in *** with my husband ,,i dream *** with other men,,i love watchi ng porn and dirt
and yes sex with god ,,,isnt it weird

im guilty how can i over come this situatin ......
need urgent help i can not talk about this or discuss it with anyone
..i hope plz give some gud answer to this

and really im not this !!!! i m or i was religious ,,i do beleive in god ,,
i do love my husband a lot ........m i ditching him?

Answer 1

NO! NO! NO!

America is the most sexually repressed country in the world. Girl you are a sex machine. Own it. Do you realize how important sex is to every person's life. You may not realize it, but women even chart their lives by their sexually changes: puberty, pregnancy, menopause.

Girl, you love sex, and the more you fantasies, the more excitement you need to get you off. That's about as normal as growth. What's not normal is living in some ideal world where the ideal life includes happy couple sex with no thoughts outside of the marriage bed, with no thoughts of porn.

Your body is wired, you brain connected, you can't stop a car speeding down the highway at 65 miles per hour with a book of laws and a society of idealists. Live, love, and be happy!

By the way, of course you fantasies about God. Could there be a better partner?! You probably feel close with him, and that he is strong and loving..... hello? God is as good for you as your spouse is, but you can have your spouse all the time, so you give it a run with an impossible,,,, enjoy and free yourself.

Answer 2

Sex, (if I understand what you were saying) is completly normal thing, God gave it to us to have ,it is a gift, there is nothing that gives a human being more satisfaction if used in its proper way.
I dont believe the pornos are all that healthy to watch. Most people dont act in those ways that you see in those movies, fortunately or unfortunately that is a fact and they can really do damage in a relationship. I speak from experience, and yeah i still watch once in a while but i dont for long periods of time, trying not to. But anyway another serious issue in my opinion is this experience with God, and the " you was religous" comment,
i think you better draw closer to God because it sounds like there are spiritual powers that are messsing with you, and you should take the fact that they are giving you this kind of attention a little serios .

Answer 3

There's no reason to feel guilty unless you've actually betrayed your husband. Your not ditching him by being obsessed about ***. Unless you WANT to ditch him. If not, then talk to him about the way you are feeling. If he's ok with it and you haven't done anything wrong, then stop feeling so guilty.

If you feel that your obsession is just getting to be too much and is in the way of you living your life normally, then discuss it with your doctor. They could help to make sure that something isn't physically wrong with you.

Answer 4

Except for the sex with God part, I think you're just a lady whose desires have ripened. Don't feel guilt for having a healthy sex drive. It can change through your life, usually with fluctuating hormones, and is nothing to feel shame over. Realize that it is natural and normal to have desires, and try to channel these within your marriage bed.

Answer 5

i think you may be a nymphomaniac... look it up and ask ur doctor... dont be ashamed if it feels good to you. do you feel guilty after you scratch a mosquito bite? no. because its your body you can do what you want with it. but do your research about it and there is medication if its serious.... ever read the book Addicted by Zane? thats exactly what its about.

Answer 6

nothing wrong with fantasizing

your husband probably does it to even though he may not tell you.

i don't think of my wife every time i am with her

but, i love my wife & would be with no one else & if i wanted to be with someone else i'd just pretend it was them when with my wife... she does the same thing too..... sometimes i'm even jason priestly for crying out loud but i'm ok with it.

the fact is that we love each other & are together & we are happy no matter what the fantasy

hope this helps,

ss

Answer 7

Complete sentences please.

2 points

Answer 8

If you weren't doing something wrong, you wouldn't be asking!

Answer 9

... Next time use clear language

Answer 10

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