i hate my sister so much sometimes i wish she was dead...?

Question

am i the only one that feels this way? at other times i feel real bad for her and want to talk to her . we live in the same house and haven't spoken to each other for at least 2 years, what do i do?

Answer 1

Well you really should not hate anybody. Hate will get you nothing but grief. If you want to talk to your sister why don't you invite her on a walk and have a heart to heart talk with her. Once she starts talking just listen. Hopefully she will open up to you and repair the rift.

Sounds like something has happened in her life to make her bitter.

If your sister does not respond to you then you need to lead a good life. Maybe one day she will come to you and if she does not then it is her problem and not yours.

I am sorry you are hurting.
Hugs!
G.G.

Answer 2

You are not the only one who feels that way. Anyone with a sister feels that way sometimes. As you guys get older, things will settle down, and you'll find her to be a great friend. Family becomes much more important when you get out of the house. Personally, I get along great with my sister as long as there is at least one state in between us. If we're in the same place, we still fight like brother and sister. It does get better.

Answer 3

okay first don't listen to people telling you to kill your sister. Second everyone feels like that with their siblings at least one time in their life, but just think of how sad you would be if something really happened and the last thing you said was that you wished she were dead instead of "I love you"

Answer 4

first of all i have the same problem and sometimes i feel that way but u have to talk to her and if she rejects u try again.....at least try it 3 times then if she still rejects u try to do things for her or buy things for her and if she still even rejects u dont try any more cus 1 day she will realize that she loves u and she will say her sorry

Answer 5

Be her friend. My sisters and I used to argue all the time, but now they are my closest friends because they understand more about me than most people. When you get older, you will probably wish you had patched things up a long time ago. Try it now- she probably feels the same way, even if she'd never admit it.

Answer 6

I don't know what race you are, but in the black community we don't play this. Blood is thicker than mud and if I ever hear one of my kids say they hate each other I'll tear their behinds up. In the end, family is all you've got. Make amends with the sister, life is too short to sweat the small stuff.

Answer 7

That's a horrible thing to say, and there's an old adage, "Be careful what you wish for." You don't really want her dead, so don't say such things. Why don't you just try talking to her? You might find you have more in common than you think.

Answer 8

I've felt that way, when I stopped worrying about her and our relationship surprisingly it got better, now we can even be in the same room together without a screaming match. Always be the bigger person, it just feels better in the end.

Answer 9

not speakin 4 2 yrs is really bad.u both might need each other in critical times therefore just try talkin it over with her it might help. BEST OF LUCK.

Answer 10

you hate her. the problem is you. anything that goes against life is negative n problomatic.

you know you are gonna regret for the rest of your life for hating her......but instead if you both could be friends....you could have such beautiful memories......

for god's sake she's your sister.....if you dont love her then who is supposed to?

listen to your heart.....not to your ego.....you both can have a great life together if you wish to.....

n plz do! go talk to her....she might not respond initially.....but dont give up.....smile at her....get her a present....tell her you want to be her friend.......

i lost my brother......i wish i was close to him

i hope you dont go through what i did.....