my baby's daddy always puts everything on me, He lost his licence because of to many tickets and now when I get of work or something he wants me to come home and wait for him till his boss brings him home to do anything. Or like I've been working hard all week, havent spent much time with my daughter and saturday I want to get up and go do somethng w/ my daughter, but he works until 2:00 pm so he wants us to sit at the house and wait for him to get home to go do anything. Should I be sensitive to his feelings and wait so he's not stuck at home? Or should I not have to suffer because of his mistakes (not driving by the law)
2006-06-16 06:28:09 · 7 answers · asked by tkay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's being manipulative. He broke the law and now he needs to pay for his mistakes. There is no good reason for you and your daugther to sit and wait on him. Why not take your daughter out for breakfast or shopping while he's at work, then as he's getting off the clock, meet him there to pick him up and do something all together with your daughter? You're being sensitive enough by taking him everywhere when he could and should just take the bus or a cab. Let him know you're happy to help when you can, but there isn't a YellowCab logo on the side of your car.
2006-06-16 06:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is basically trying to control you. It's his fault that he lost his license because he doesnt know how to drive following the law. If he wants to go somewhere, he can take the bus. You shouldn't have to wait for him all day just because he can't drive to go anywhere. If he wants you to wait for him so you can do things TOGETHER, then I would wait for him. But if he wants you to wait for him to get home until you leave with your daughter, then he's controlling you.
2006-06-16 06:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch off. One day you wait for him and the next you go out with your daughter. You're very lucky he wants to come home from work and be with you...
2006-06-16 06:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by La_Belle_LadyR99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't suffer for his mistakes. Its childish of him to expect life to stand still because of him. So go enjoy your day, and swing by to get him after work. Sometimes wait for him, sometimes don't. Relationships are built on compromise, not demanding. Its his fault he got in trouble, not yours.
2006-06-16 06:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no you are not mean.why? not go do something with your daughter untill he gets home. then you all can go up town together.
2006-06-16 06:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by short_slim_betty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get his license back and stop speeding like an idiot!
2006-06-16 06:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by oo0_krissy_0oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says "my baby's daddy" anymore
2006-06-16 06:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by wolfball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋