i keep thinking gay thoughts i wont go into detail. how do i stop that ? so far i havent acted out in reality but i keep thinking about it .please share any experiences.,,,willyouhelpmegetbetter@yahoo.com,,,
God bless you
2006-06-16 06:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ive herd a lot of information from a wide scope of people.i want to say thank yuou for answering my question god bless you
2006-06-16 12:15:35 · update #1
Maybe you are gay. You shouldnt stop what you feel. Try it out. Maybe you are or its just a fantasy. Everyone has some different fantasy.
2006-06-16 06:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by babikates11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,! its pathetic some of the advice your gettin , obviosly these people have not gone through difficulties in their life yet, or they would not be so judgemental and they say that christians judge, well its always easier to point the finger at others isn;t it. Well they wont be pointing fingers for ever, cause every Dog has his Day,.
In order to give you any proper advice i think we would have to know more like have u evr had girlfriend,do u have one now ,are u married , so on And has this been a problem for a long time.? Have you ever been hurt by a girl ? I mean its a pretty complex issue !
But I would strongly recomend that you find someone somewhere that you can either trust or talk to . a friend, a counsellor or go to a spirit filled church and talk to a pastor, or get them to pray for you......
2006-06-16 08:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Catt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're constantly thinking about it, then there is a chance that you might be. But there is a chance you may not be. Everyone at one time or another has thought about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex....anyone who tells u otherwise is lying. If you are it is NOTHING to be ashamed of!
...jaylili...get a life! This is 2006! Some people are gay! Some of my closest friends are! Deal with it! Someone elses sexual preference should have no impact on ur life!
2006-06-16 06:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you value societal and religious convention over your own emotions, passion, and thoughts. I'm sorry that society has failed to allow you the freedom to be happy with yourself in accepting these thoughts. Remember, the greatest love is self love because you can not love anyone else until you love yourself.
We've all been a little brainwashed, this might be a call to wake you up.
2006-06-16 06:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by oneclassicmaiden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry a picture of Senator Joe Lieberman with you. Whenever you feel a 'gay thought' coming on - look at the picture. Guaranteed results!!!
2006-06-16 06:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a group called Courage which helps people with SSA (Same Sex Attraction). They are not a bunch of kooks, but are devoted to living a chaste life. Their program preaches that SSA is ok, but acting on it is not, This is a very religious group, highly Catholic, but not limited to Catholics. I recommend you look into it.There are no commitments or obligations or costs. You can find them online under Courage.com
Good luck.
2006-06-16 06:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the devil speaking to you.. do not respond. i dont discriminate but if i can help someone from making a huge mistake then so be it. get a hobby, find a religion( if u dont have one) because in the bible being gay is a sin... in the Quran it is a sin ... in the torah it is a sin. so find your path and shut your brain down from these thoughts... u r not gay! u r just being toooo curious and remember that curiousity killed the cat!
2006-06-16 06:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get htis right:
You want to stop thinking the way you think?
As a gay guy I suggest you just let it takes its course. You might be gay, you might not.
2006-06-16 06:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you fight it, the greater your desire. If you have the thoughts you will probably act on it eventually especially if you drink alcohol or take drugs -they lower your inhibitions. Have condoms in your pocket in case you can't resist your impulses.
2006-06-16 07:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop them. You could be gay. So what?
2006-06-16 06:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋