i keep thinking gay thoughts i wont go into detail. how do i stop that ? so far i havent acted out in reality but i keep thinking about it .please share any experiences.,,,willyouhelpmegetbetter@yahoo.com,,,
God bless you
2006-06-16 06:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is completely natural to think things like this. I am more concerned with why it bothers you so much. And if you are so afraid about acting out your thought, have you had any other thoughts that you have acted out and regretted? If so you need help from someone other than YAHOO.
2006-06-16 06:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by missstressjade 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is a sincere post then:
You should search the net for resources on coping with OCD, and/or anxiety disorders.
There are a plethora of methods to repress these unpleasant thoughts as well, but it is often best to bite the bullet and see a Therapist, it'd be a lot easier then trying to handle it alone anyway. You're not a "looney" or anything, I can't think of a single person who doesn't or hasn't suffered from some kind of quirk, and of course, counseling is healthy to begin with for anyone.
You wouldn't be the first person suffering from an anxiety disorder to complain of suffering from persistent unpleasant sexual thoughts.
Do yourself a favor, do some research, perhaps seek out a respectable Psych., and stop trying to get help from immature nonentities.
Kind regards,
Kaos
2006-06-16 13:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by io.kaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Willyou ....
One thing that is certain about being human, is that the thoughts we try to "stop" are the ones that get the biggest.
The thoughts and dreams we have are our "inner heart" (some people call it our soul or subconscious ) trying to communicate with us.
If we are not accustomed to hearing our "inner voice" or do not listen at all .... it gets louder until we do listen.
And "gay" thoughts might not be really all that "gay".
For example, if you are thinking or dreaming about some sort of sex with another male, that could have many meanings.
Do you have male friends that you love and share your life with ? If not, you might need this.
Many of us who were raised by strong women often have a big "hole" in our lives due to our lack of solid connection to other men.
These are things to consider.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-16 22:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by warrior0994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you can't change your orientation. You can choose to be celibate, however. Keep yourself busy with hobbies, sports, volunteer work, etc.
2006-06-16 13:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you are gay. don't try to hide it. these thoughts will only go away once they are fuffilled. these thoughts are only normal for teenage boys going through puberty. it is okay to be gay.
2006-06-16 13:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by boricua82991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
castration
2006-06-16 13:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by :Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋