Can someone tell me why i'm always a target at school for someone to mess with if i never do anything to cause any problems. Everyday i stay to myself i never talk to anyone and on the bus people mess with me also why do u think this is if i never do anything?????
2006-06-16 06:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by glamorous 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont let them run over me i always stand up for myself but it is so many people and u cant fight everyone also i'm trying to get my education so i cant keep trying to fight all of them i just want to no why do u think this is i try to handle it in a mature way trust me i dont let anyone run over me but the question is why am i always the target my friend is way more quiet than i am and no one ever messes wit her and she's the type who let anyone run over her
2006-06-16 06:10:00 · update #1
Maybe its because your so quiet. People might judge you as being someone who wont stick up for yourself and so make an easy target. Which in turn shows you the people who are targeting you are really cowards.
2006-06-16 06:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its probably because you seem different since people never hear you talk and they wonder what you're about. Also since you are "unknown", they assume you are a pushover and that they CAN mess with you without you giving it right back to them verbally or physically. You need to stop that by not backing down when they mess with you. Don't ever let them see that you are hurt because that just fuels thier fire. Try befriending people that aren't rude to you and don't mess with you. LOL their IS safety from numbers. If you have friends around you, who cares what people say to you, just ignore them and keep talking to your friends. To make friends, find something you have in common and make a comment or ask someone else who is quiet if they want to hang out, or ask what someone thinks of a teacher. Ice breakers are great to make new friends. Good luck
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2016-10-14 05:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, some people in this world are jerks ay. Usually, bullies like to target people who are quiet and keep to themselves because they believe they are weak, powerless and a loner. It hurts but that's how bullies target their prey. Be sure to have your mates with you so that you don't look too singled out and powerless if you know what i mean. And speak up more, show them that you are much tougher and confident than you seem and they will gradually see you as someone who should be treated with more respect.
2006-06-16 06:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probally do it bc you're quit and don't do anything. that's just how people make them selves feel better.they have to show their people they can be loud and rude just to get a laugh from each other.try your best not to let it get to you even though i know thats hard. you're oviously matured more than they are so try not to take it to personal
2006-06-16 06:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself...smack them right in the face next time someone messes with you...You are either gonna get your *** kicked or they will stop messin with you all together. Either way you've stood up for yourself
2006-06-16 06:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Big Fred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because you are an easy target if you never fight back. it's a tough spot to be in. good luck with it!
2006-06-16 06:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time u stand up for urself, dont let anyone bring u down.
2006-06-16 06:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just how some people are till youkick there a$$
2006-06-16 06:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by KIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋