I been really good friends with this guy for years who i always cared about so much even though i had a boyfriend the whole time. We are always together and most people that meet us think that we are a couple. All my friends and even his tell me that we should be togther cause we act like we are but to us it doesnt seem that way. I guess we just so used to eachother, but what he don't kow is that i been in love with him for so long. i know im very insecure about the way i look and i'm trying to lose weight so i can look better for him.
2006-06-16 05:35:00 · 8 answers · asked by DianaCL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im sure he already loves you right know the way you are. if you want to loose weight do it for YOURSELF, not anyone else...i would tell him what your feeling, maybe he feels the same way.
if by some chance he doesnt, im sure it will not ruin your freindship. ive been there. if your bond is strong nothing will break it. tell him. good luck
2006-06-16 05:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel to be in love with a very close friend, you want to be closer than close but, also do not want to lose the friendship.
But, do you know the marriages that are based on the fact that they are friends as well as lovers are the ones that actually last. So there is some hope in knowing that. I understand that you are worried about the way you look that is okay but, if he is your friend as well it might not even bother him, it most likely is bothering you more than him.
One thing is for sure you do need to tell him how you are feeling because he will not see it as you do, most guys do not know how to read between the lines as well as us females, you have to just put it out there for him straight out and honest, I am sure if he does not feel that way in the beginning, He just may start to look at you in a different light. Does that help some what?
I hope so, because I have been in a situation like that the only thing is the shoe was on the other foot, I was the one who didn't see what my guy friend saw..Until he told me hoe felt, and we are now happily married.
I hope that gives you hope.... (=
2006-06-16 05:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as close friends as you say, you should be able to discuss your feelings. In fact, my husband is a man that was my best friend for years, but since I had a boyfriend, he stayed just my friend. Then when I was available and we talked, we found out that both of us felt the same way. He had wanted to be closer than friends, but had stayed back hoping I would some day be available. We've been married now over 1 year and are as happy as any time in the past. In fact, I think being best friends helped the relationship when it progressed since we already knew each others likes and dislikes and all the little quirks. Who knows, maybe he's afraid to tell you he loves you! Good luck!
2006-06-16 05:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by josie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. If he isnt gay then he wants you. Guys can easily be talked into having more of a relationship than just friends. Just get him alone and tell him "hey I like you more than just a friend and I want to be with you." Simple as that. If he says no (highly doubt it unless he is in a relationship already with someone else) then you can just go back to being friends. Or just be REALLY gutsy and just get him alone and give him the best french kiss all of a sudden and make sure you look good that day. He will like that!
2006-06-16 19:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. If you guys are destined to be it will work out in the end.
2006-06-16 05:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take on a romantic date!
2006-06-16 05:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him "I love you"!!!!!maybe it will work , maybe it wont, only one way to find out
2006-06-16 05:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him head
2006-06-16 05:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋