I like this guy on my swim team named Kyle who is 2 years older than me which makes him sixteen. I was waiting for my mom to come pick me up after practice one day and it was getting pretty late (9:00 PM). (Practice ends at 8:00.) Kyle offered to give me a ride and I told him that it was okay cause my mom was probably on her way already. And then he asked if I wanted to wait in his car until my mom came. I know him pretty well and he's a really nice guy who's nice to pretty much everyone. I told him it was okay and that he could leave since my coach was still there. He waited with me until my mom came and I left. Do you think he likes me? He usually says hi to me when he sees me and I'll say hi back. But if he doesn't talk to me, I won't talk to him. I really like him and I don't think he knows that cause I don't show it at all. He hasn't been saying hi to me recently and he won't talk to me or say hi at all if he's with his friends (guys and girls).
2006-06-16 05:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He does like you.. no doubt here girl..
Just open up alittle so he can tell that you like him too.
Don't hide your feelings and don't show them all at once..
Start with a smile when you see him and then say hi..
Don't wait for him to say hi.. you say it so he knows that you like him and I bet you he makes the first move and tells you that he feels the same way.. just don't hide your feelings towards him, you are both doing this and that ain't helping..
Good luck and don't forget you're still young so just take it easy..
Wishing you the best of luck.
Garry.
2006-06-16 05:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you're smart and should trust your instincts. You were smart enough to not let him take you home, smart enough not to wait in his car. Both of those were excellent judgement calls on your part. He'd be lucky to get the attention of a girl who's so confident, athletic, and smart. Don't worry about him--focus on making yourself the best you can be, and the boys will respond (if not Kyle, someone better!). It takes some of us a long time to learn that lesson!
2006-06-16 12:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chaucer_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been just trying to be nice.
If he really likes you he will begin going out of his way to talk to you, or to say Hi, etc. But the important thing in my opinion is not whether or not he "likes" you but whether or not he is "right" for you. And if he is, then he will feel very comfortable with you, and vice versa.. In other words he will have lots of things to say to you and will begin teasing you and making you laugh.
2006-06-16 12:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by RB731 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know...if you don't initiate a conversation. yes, i think he does...but if he isn't ready to show it, then you have to be patient. it was VERY nice of him to wait with you while you're mom came. start up a conversation with him about something you both have in common...and NOT swimming; maybe a favorite place to hang out, or favorite thing to do. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-06-16 12:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just being nice to you. Think about it, if really showed some interest in you he would let you know verbally. He has not approached you, he has not asked you to hang out with him, he has done nothing to indicate that he's interested.
2006-06-16 12:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't this some sweet ish....
If I were to do all that for a girl..yeah I gotta be crazy about her..
Dude is prolly crazy bout you girl.
Be careful though lil sista don't get too wild with them boys n shitt...you too damn young...
2006-06-16 12:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by DaJaw Breaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever in ur mind u ask directly otherwise your life train left from station & reach any other station so my advise is that don't waste your time & go direct to him
2006-06-16 12:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probally likes u but he is afraid that u dont like him all u have to do is tell him hi sometimes & maby he will get a lil hint then u can find out if he likes u or not & if he dosnt then u dont have to tell him anything about it just be friends & then he might realize he likes u!!
2006-06-16 12:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by totally stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was trying to show you how he felt but you did not show him how u felt back, guys are silly like that , be the one to go talk to him guys like that ( some guys are actually shy) you gotta make the first move
2006-06-16 12:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he cares about you, if you want him to like you, you need to talk to him and make it obvious so that he'll get the hint and ask you out....just try it. Don't play hard to get either cuz guys don't play games...
2006-06-16 12:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋