how can I stop my ex from stalking us?

Question

For five years now my ex and the biologcial father to my five year old has been stalking us. I have injunctions against him. But this hasn't stoped him from harrasing family and friends or from calling coworkers and following them to there homes in hope of finding where we live. I have taken every legal action offered to us. Right now my husband is trying to adopt our five year old, but hte ex is fighting it and we are unable to prove that he doesn't desearve rights as a father. He has threatened my life and my childs. He has asalted my father and friends. He has even taken to dating my old high school friends and ex's. In school I dated both males and females. He is working his way through my ex girlfriends. I don't talk to them or hang out with any of these people anymore. They all contenue to live the party lifestyle but I grew up and now have my own family to care for. I only know of his dealings with them because I ran into a couple of them.

Answer 1

There is so many more questions than answers by what you have said. Does he pay child support? When did he last see his child? Just the mere mention of him and violence creates some concern in my own mind, and I would imagine this is proof enough to any judge. Stalking is definitely not right, and your ex sounds dangerous! If your haven't done so already, though it sounds like you have, file for a restraining order. This does nothing to prevent your friends or high school ex's from him, but at the very least, it protects YOU and your child. Get a good attorney to assist with the legal battle. I'm sure it will be expensive, but likely worth it if you are safe. Good luck to you and yours!