Can Love overcome Hate?

Question

Example---- Suppose someone hates a person.... but if that person continues to be decent and send vibrations of Love, will that hate be changed into Love?.... does Love have that kind of Power?.... What will win, Hate or Love?

I loved your answer....zentrinity

Ken.... your answer is lovely.... but maybe this works within a married couple
What if someone says, "I hate you" to a person.... will this not tend to end the relationship altogether?

March.... Que Sera Sera.... I don't hate ANYONE..... It is someone who hates me.... sometimes I do not know how to handle this negative emotion coming my way.... I try to be nice or I vanish

Answer 1

yes! and this is eaxactly how to do it- intentionally change your vibration towards that person from dis-like to love. it will take some effort, but eventually you can shift your emotion, and likely shift theirs.

this is also works on a global scale...we are all co- creating the state of the world, with our vibrations. so, send love and peaceful blessing to the world, to specific places that need help, to specific people, or in general to mankind. the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi is very powerful as well as the Great Invocation by Bailey
http://www.lucistrust.org/invocation/

love always wins

Answer 2

Love and hate are mostly one and the same. Both have the same effect on the body. fast heart beat, higher temperature, The same hormones come into play and all the other physical things. They are the same. What the scientists can't figure out is why when hate is there the health goes bad and while love is there the health gets better, It is well known that many times hate if professed and felt but under it there is the other one just waiting to take over. Have you ever been around a couple that really care for each other and when the girl gets angry for some reason she will say I hate you and at the time she means it but that doesn't last very long and it turns into love again even stronger. So yes love can and does turn into hate and the other way around as well.

Answer 3

That's an interesting question. In my mind I want to say love always wins out, but on a personal note I have been waiting over 16 years for someone to forgive me, and he has yet to do so. That comes after quite a bit of prayer on his behalf and going through a stage of being mad at him for not forgiving me. I finally just decided that if it is not in his nature at this time to forgive people, it is his problem, and not mine. Now in the bigger scheme of things, I think Love will eventually conquer all the hate in the world, but not until the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. Have a happy day!

Answer 4

Yes, Nimmmo, Love can overcome Hate-Eventually!
But we cannot expect the one we Hate to change, however hard we imagine, he won't change unless we make our efforts.

Let me explain-How:

Scenerio#1:
You hate a person for some strong reasons.
Maybe he is not decent, maybe he's a drinker/ smoker.
Maybe he's cheated on you, maybe he's unkind towards you, maybe he's abusive, maybe whatever...
You SHOW your hate to this person. And he reflects it the same way. He hates you back! And the hate between you both, becomes stronger.


Possible Solution:
Talk to this person (if he's the listening types).
Send a letter by post/ email him/ fax him.
What about?
....Everything you really really really hate about him and just take it out in one go...fill up as many pages as you want, don't read it, just send it...

Now? Sleep off...

The next day, you're going to feel lighter, and now is the best time to write somthing nice about this man you love/ loved.
Written? Now send that too...so hold you Love back. Good Girl.

You'll be amazed with the response.
But ensure you dont mix both emotions in one letter.
Keep the first one to express HATE.
Keep the second one to express LOVE.

The very fact you think about somone with strong emotions, whether Love or Hate, means this person is important to you, right?
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Scenario#2:
You receive a reply.
Maybe he replied with two letters as well, same like you.
Maybe he replied with an apology.
Maybe he never replied.
Or maybe he just came over with a bunch of flowes to make your day!
But, trust me, he wont just ignore these letters you've written from your heart. He'd reply.

Possible Solution:
Now what do you do?
How do you react?

First and foremost, READ what he has to say about you.
Read both letters with sincerity.
Now read only the 'Love' Letter again and again.

You'll be amazed how FAST this Loves catches up with you...
Why? 'Coz you've allowed him to send you his 'love' vibrations to you! We tend to block ourselves against the ANY vibrations, as we're scared to face it, it just might hurt us. Right, but through this letter, you're opening a little window to allow the 'love' vibrations to float in. Dont release them yet by expressing them back. Just cherish it...for some time...till you need a refill...

Continue the Letter's sessions (with frequent breaks), till you both feel a sea of emotions to meet him. May take a few days, months, or even years, but Love will conquer in the end...just nuruture it with sincerity and patience and it will grow.

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The idea is to first eliminate one's own 'Hatered'.
By expressing it, if its very strong.

Then ACCEPT the other's 'Hatered' as well.

Lastly, ALLOW him to 'Love' you back!!!
Guranteed Results!!

Actually, humans are like monkeys somtimes, we love those who love us, & we hate those who hate us.
The irony is that when somone hates us, we hate them back.
Then why cant we love somone who hates us too?
But calculated efforts can help us convert even the 'hate' or 'love'.

Answer 5

I heard there's a very fine line between love and hate, i've seen it in action a time or two. I think the answer is one can overcome the other, depending on your emotions at the time. In other words, hate can overcome love and love can overcome hate.

These emotions are deep-seated and come from our more primordial instincts, thanks for the question girl.

Answer 6

LOVE is a fantastic word which moves our heart from its place with love we can do anything for example,if one loves a person and this person hates him By time this person will feel embarresed from himself as he refuses this lovely love and he will have to return back this love.All in all ,i strongly believe that by love we can overcome everything on the whole earth!

Answer 7

There is a saying: keep your friends close but keep your enemies even closer.

This means to me one thing: love wins over hate - always!
:-)

There is no better thing than to win over an enemy by becoming friends! Ever tried it? It is amazing!
Hatred is inherently stupid... it is usually rooted in a set of prejudices and rejection..... I call it the "blackness of mind".

Acceptance and getting to know the one you hate - can actually change hatred into love! It happened to me quite often. People who became my friends often hated me first cause they didn't know me at all!
But when they got to know REAL me, they decided to stick with me - and we made peace.
:-)

I think love is more likely to win over hate.. because hatred takes energy away from the one who hates..... while love produces more positive energy and leads to creativity!
Keep the faith!
:)

Answer 8

The long answers are not impressing me. I think the answer to this question should be short and sweet.

Yes, love can overcome hate. Gandhi said "show your other cheek too." Why do you think he said that?

Answer 9

Love will always win.

If you are basing your hate on that person's actions, and those actions change, then your feelings will change.

You think that you hate, you only need to change your mind really.

Answer 10

Love has more power. But the other person has to want to receive it.