my cousin which is 12 came to me and told me that she is the only one that I can talk to and told me this: Her boyfriend told her that he wants to get her pregnant bythe end of the year, guys at school throw condoms at her, and shes not happy with here life...I feel so bad for her.I already told her to tell a teacher but she doesnt want to do that. What should I do?
2006-06-16 04:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
its a sad situation but if she wont tell YOU should... too many children are getting harassed raped and killed, if she wont stand up for herself and you dont stand up for her who will????
2006-06-16 04:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by highgamer6969 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, luckily the school year is almost over.
I'm hoping this also means that she won't around these same jackasses during the summer.
You should encourage her to tell her Mom & tell her that you will be there when she tells her if that will help. She could write a letter if she's afraid to talk about it.
Mom needs to know, this could lead to rape, low self esteem, promiscuity, among other things.
Think of how terribly Mom would feel if she didn't get the opportunity to help her daughter through this tough time.
It's a tough age & Mom should get her into Girl Scouts, sports or something else that she's interested in to keep her occupied.
She may also need to change schools or make sure the school keeps those other kids stay away from her.
2006-06-16 04:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are conditioned not to tell on their peers. She thinks it will be embarrassing. In reality when their bad behavior is in the light and everyone can judge them ( for throwing condoms at a young girl ). She'll get support from her friends who are afraid to speak up. The parents of those boys deserve the chance to correct their behavior. This is a very serious matter your going to have to go over her head. She needs to learn not to tolerate such behavior, and to speak up for herself immediately.
2006-06-16 05:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly her cousin is amazingly propose. yet no isn't Sexual Harassment, its more effective of harassment. If she continues to be from what her cousin did. the in undemanding words way you are able to help is through comforting her, do issues she likes to do. attempt to get her recommendations thoroughly off the problem. Your a good chum assisting.
2016-11-14 20:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by chowen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should go 2 another school and brake up with her boyfriend
2006-06-16 05:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by stef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her parents and school need to be told and she needs to be kept away from these people.
2006-06-16 04:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2006-06-16 04:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about involving her parents, that is what they are there for.
2006-06-16 04:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by dik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should inform her parents also now you can inform that please don't wait for anymore
2006-06-16 05:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋