2006-06-16 04:25:42 · 10 answers · asked by balu 25 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
actually i felt in love with best freind (she proposed to me and few daysi relised thats yes!i love her too)we always used to bewith each otherthrough out the college no matter if one from our group is with us.but suddenly god knows what happened she started ingoring me (till that day i never put any condition to her and not even after she started!)to my rememberance i never said anything wrong or something that would her feeling.hah! one thing is there she is from very rich family and i am from middle class family we were about to get married i just told her that after we get married it will take me around 2yrs to those same facilitated experience (financiallly and other)but i would always give the kind moments you ever expected from your dream boy.
2006-06-20 04:18:13 · update #1
actually she is not from the same cast.
2006-06-20 04:21:39 · update #2
actually i felt in love with best freind (she proposed to me and few daysi relised thats yes!i love her too)we always used to be with each other through out the college no matter if one from our group is with us.but suddenly god knows what happened she started ingoring me (till that day i never put any condition to her and not even after she started!)to my rememberance i never said anything wrong or something that would heart her feeling.hah! one thing is there she is from very rich family and i am from middle class family we were about to get married i just told her that after we get married it will take me around 2yrs to give those same facilitated experience (financiallly and other)but i would always give the kind moments you ever expected from your dream boy.actually she is marwdi (cast) and i am brahmin.
2006-06-20 04:24:20 · update #3
True love is never to seek anything in return. Otherwise it is no different fron trading. I have never heard people doing trading in 'love'. In that case, all red light areas would have best markets to purchase love and sell love.
2006-06-16 04:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Western culture, we do have conditions on love. We we get married, many of us say the vows, "For richer or poorer, in sickness and health, and forsaking all others." So that would imply that, if one or the other person were to break those vows - or conditions - the marriage contract would be null and void. Personally, the only conditions I would impose would be honesty and fidelity. But if a person loves another, it is assumed they would not lie or cheat on their lover. (It doesn't always work that way)
It sounds like this young lady is already getting uncomfortable about the "richer or poorer" concept. I know almost nothing about your culture, but I have heard that marrying outside of one's cast is impossible. Or at least, very difficult. If your love is treating you badly and being cold towards you because you are not rich, then she is not worthy of you. Regardless of her higher caste.
I hope you will find real love without silly conditions. Good luck and much happiness to you.
2006-06-23 04:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Theatregal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be truely "In Love", that love has to be unconditional. And that is supposedly one of the main traits of true love.
But to survive as an individual and to have a successful and happy relationship, you SHOULD be conditional. Make sure you know what is best for you!!!!
Remember many people fall in love but arent happy or dont have a good relationship.
But you can love someone even if your are conditional and end up happier that way.
2006-06-16 11:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkspirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional, but in the words of some guy who I can't remember the name of:
Love is easy, relationships are hard.
You can love someone but have a horrible relationship with them, because even if you love them, they can still do things to piss you off, etc. Love is something you feel as an individual towards someone else, a relationship is something two people are involved in and interact with one another in. Relationships should have conditions, but love probably shouldn't, in my book.
2006-06-16 13:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by crono37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, isn't true love supposed to be unconditional? But don't go crazy and lose your head over it! Good luck, and I hope you're happy in all your loving endeavors!
2006-06-16 11:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes no abuse,no cheating,nothing bad for you. If not you`ll end up being the type that sits around at nights waiting for your man to come home
2006-06-16 11:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by goth_punk_party_animal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are conditions. Otherwise you would be compromising yourself. There are certain things no one should stand for -- infidelity, abuse, etc. It's a matter of self-esteem.
2006-06-16 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love is unconditional.
sometimes.
2006-06-16 11:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by prettygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is UNCONDITIONAL ... atleast this is what books say
2006-06-16 11:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kabir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "condional"?
2006-06-23 15:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋