should care about what ppl think about me?

Question

forexample i just meet some1 they just look at wat im wearin and how i look they how im really. they judge me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

no u shouldnt care wat ppl think jut be u and dont let anyone put u down!

Answer 2

The real question you should be asking is do you care about what you think about yourself? Yea people out there judge people about what there wearing, it's mainly because they don't know any other way to be. They were raised so shallow to think that the clothing you wear or the shoes you have are the most important thing. It's not. If people are not liking something about you, look at it, if you don't like it than change it, but if you are happy with whatever it is, and happy with the person you are tell everyone else to kiss it, its thier loss for not wanting to get to know the person you are, not yours. Always be who you are and don't let others opinions change that. Hold your head high and be proud to be you!

Answer 3

Have you ever noticed that Liberal Professors wear close cropped salt and pepper beards?
That liberal women wear gray and white hair?
These are the people that teach, "don`t judge" but to the contrary they know very well that that humans judge all the time. They themselves are seeking to be judged as wise and all knowing and to be recognized by their peers. That is why they wear their hair the way they do..
If you see a homeless man on the street you know he is homeless by the way he looks. You have just judged.
If you wear a bone in your nose people will automaticly wonder why you distroyed your lovely face and thus think your not quite right. Those that pray on the weak and not quite right recognize you as a potential victim.
The image you present determines what you will recieve as a reaction. If the reaction you recieve is not what you enjoy then change your image.

Answer 4

You shold always care what people think about you. There's a difference though in caring and letting it consume you. Don't let it consume you... if you are only meeting people who look at what you are wearing then you are not meeting the right kind of people. Change wear you hang out- look in other places. But if you think people think you are wearing something inappropriate and that happens a lot- think about it and see if maybe you might be and change it up a little. If we didn't care what people thought we would maybe not change, or grow and would become cold and lonely.

Answer 5

Look, honey, let me tell you something. From my life experiences: I could give a rats --- what people think about me. Don't worry about all these people. Be yourself. Your a wonderful human being, and you were put on this good Earth for a reason. Why does everyone worry about what people think about them? Love yourself and be true to yourself.You don't have to answer to anybody.

I am happy you met someone but don't ever take any harrassment from anyone. OK? take care.

Answer 6

No you shouldn't worry about what people think of you. We live in a very judgemental world. People are going to judge you no matter how attractive or unattractive, what clothes you wear, how you wear your hair, how you talk, what you eat, etc. People will try to judge you but remember you can only judge yourself. Keep your head up!

Answer 7

Do what you want to do, be who you want to be, dress how you want to dress, eat what you want to eat, sing what you want to sing, be who YOU want to be and don't let ANYONE control your life and how YOU are as a human being because at the end of the day, all that matters is that YOU feel comfortable in your skin. Don't give a crap what they think because they mean nothing. They're nobody. You don't know them, they don't know you, they just judge you, so to hell with them, if they're not willing to get to know you and just judge you by your hair or clothes, then to hell with that, just love yourself and be happy.

Answer 8

What you look like (your hair, make-up, clothes, posture, facial expressions) reveal a lot about how you want people to see you. Right? So, you are judged on that. Do you care about or put effort into how you look? If so, then you care. If you don't then why should you care?

Answer 9

Unless you are wearing inappropriate clothes (those that reveal and advertise) DON'T WORRY. People tend to judge in the first 5 seconds. Anyone who truly matters will attempt to get to know you.

Answer 10

NO! What you think matters! Don't talk to anybody about this that you know or you will seem weak. Keep strong. Hold your head high and your chin up. Ignore them.
Here is a really funny way of ignoring them. Just say, nerd, nerd,nerd, nerd, all over again, and it will be fun!

Answer 11

~What you wear, how you wear, how you groom yourself and how you carry yourself all make a statement. You are not really so dense that you do not realize that, are you. Any time you make a statement, expect to be judged. If you're dressing to be noticed, don't get upset when it works. And when the message you are sending is received, what right do you have to be upset. Welcome to the world, toots.