At the age of 30 and being a single, today I have more desire for a child than for a man! Just wondering whats wrong with me?
2006-06-16 04:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by traveller 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
your a normal women ... we have the need to have children to love them and to nurture them.. it's time you should have one!!! you'd be a great mom !!!
2006-06-16 04:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by JeNe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. As we get older, yes we all wish to find the right man who we are with for the rest of our lives and start a family, but it doesn't always go that way. I would say that if you feel like YOU are ready, not just emotionally but financially too, then go ahead and have a child. There are many ways of going through it. Besides if you really want a child and know u will be a good mother in all ways then why wait for the right man to come along. U never know when that will happen. 30 is not old but its also not young. You don't wanna wait til your 50 or to old to have one do u?
2006-06-16 11:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by DianaCL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. Just like I have not felt the maternal instinct at all myself. I have been married for three years now and I am almost 28. So who is to say what is normal? If you want to have a child, being single, and feel that you can take care of it by yourself, I say more power to you and good luck. But remember, having a child is a big, big responsibility and can be quiet costly!
2006-06-16 11:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Wanting to be a mother is a wonderful thing that is separate from wanting to be a partner. Also, there is no reason to believe that you would not be a great mother, just because you are not married. Continue to examine what motherhood would mean to you, and then trust the divine power in you to do what is best. There are many children in the world that desperately need a good parent.
Good luck!
Rain
2006-06-16 11:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you! Your maternal instincts are just kicking in!!! A LOT of women have those fellings. Like for instance, I am 27 with one child, and I want another, but it is not in my best interest to have one right now because of my current situation. Still the desire is there. So don't feel like there is anything wrong with you! And know that you are not alone.
2006-06-16 11:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting a child is the most normal thing in the world, but it is far from easy to be a single mom. My best friend has graduated her boy this year and now what?she has a dilemma about her life decision...she loves her son, but now he is going to live his life.What will her life be like? Really if you ever find love, keep it. It is hard work, but joyous. It comes in all good relationships, family, friends, children, and men. I say this even though I am divorced.
2006-06-16 11:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by c m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's normal. You probably want to have a loving relationship and feel like it's getting to be too late (really, it's not!!!). You could try foster care if you are in a position to do so. That would give you some companionship and let you find out what it's like to have kids. Just an idea!
2006-06-16 11:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by jengirl9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you are talking about having a child of your own and not attracted to a child. you could read that question two ways. if the first is the question i understan exactly where you are coming from. every women does not need a man to have children and a wonderful family. you need to do what ever you feel and don't worry about what other people think.
2006-06-16 11:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. I think its great you want to be a mom.I am and it brings life to your life, know what I mean? There are options no partner needed if you have the money. I even have a friend who got pregnant on purpose and moved out of state. I dont agree that she never told her lover but she knew he didnt want kids and she did.
2006-06-16 11:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bio clock is ticking & you feel like you should have a kid by now.
You can still conceive well in to your 40's. Don't worry about it now.
Become a foster parent & see if you really want to decidate your like to child as a single parent.
It's hard out here!
2006-06-16 11:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very normal. it just means you biological clock is ticking so go find a husband and have that baby. or just become an godmother to friends/families children maybe that will slow down the desire till you find a man
2006-06-16 11:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋