okay it was frist time having sex yesterday and after i had sex with him i felt like i wanted to throw up and i felt sick on the stomach today i'ma get birth contol pills i'm only 18 we had protection the condom didn't break but can i still get pregrant?? i don't want to be pregrant i'm not eating really please help me by today one more thing can u still bleed the day after u have sex? i mean i'm spotting but i was bleeding like it was 4 quarters lined up but now i'm spoting it's like little dots now is that normal?? and i am cramping is that normal i mean what's going on??
2006-06-16 04:03:51 · 29 answers · asked by te te 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes you can get pregnant, but personally I think you're just freaking out. Sounds like more of a mental than physical issue with you.
2006-06-16 04:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ron Mexico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip gal, you're freaking. First of all, you're probably sick because you had too much to drink the night before. Second, my daughter was conceived with a condom. Third, it's not abnormal to bleed the day after your first time. Fourth, the cramping could be something totally not related, like maybe you're in the middle of your monthly cycle. If you don't want to get pregnant, wait until you're married before having any more sex, then you won't freak out. Since it sounds like you're not planning on doing that, getting the pill is a good idea. But, you can still get pregnant on the pill, or any other birth control method. The ONLY thing that's 100% is to not do it at all. Or sterilization...a thing I'm sure you don't want to do right now. No, I'm not judging you, just stating the facts. I've been in your shoes, so I can't throw stones...and I won't. But, honestly, I'd hold out for marriage. It's what you deserve. <*)))><
2006-06-16 04:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are supposed to take a birth control pill by starting taking it on the 5th-7th day after the first spot of menstruation. taking it daily until the 28th day. then u wait for 3-5days then u start menstruation. anyway you need to talk to your community nurse or midwife to help you how to properly take the pills.
maybe it was not at the right time u took the pill that is why you are spotting. initial intercourse would bleed u a bit because your vaginal hymen has been teared up. It the hormones that is in the contraceptive pill that makes u bleed and u feel that cramping sensation.
u felt throwing up probably because of emotional factor (u got anxious, with some disbelief, or your vagus nerve has been stimulated that is why u wanted to vomit)
you cannot get pregnant if the condom didn't break. but again, your partner should have withdrawn that condom (now with seminal fluid) while his penis is still erected and not when its already flabby.
bottomline, do not just take any pill without knowing how to properly take it. do go to a local health counselor and they can help you out.
2006-06-16 04:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by redg303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a doctor,.. but it seems to me like you should of done a little more research before egaging in all this sexual activity. the internet is a great tool to educate yourself in a private and accurate maner!
It is normal to bleed. It is normal to be sore for a few days. you are welcoming something inside your body that has never been there before, so you might feel some discomfort for a little bit. you might even feel this discoumfort the next few times that you decide to have sexual relations. relax. although the pain and the sorness vary's from person to person, it is normal.
If you used a condom,.. than you did the right thing,.. depending on when your period is due and the fact that you did use protection, and it was your first time,.. i really doubt that you are pregnant. but anything is possible. I suggest you find a way to educate yourself on pregnancy so that you can avoid feeling trapped with questions in the future.
find a 'planned parenthood' in your area and get the morning after pill,.. they can explain in more detail what it is for. and while you are there, if you decide to continue to be sexually active you should look into maybe some sort of birth control like the pill or the patch. it will not protect you against STD's or AIDS,.. but it will protect you against unwanted or unplanned pregnancies!
Congrats on entering a new world of woman hood. Enjoy yourself and be responsible with your decisions, and cautious on your partners!
2006-06-16 04:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I won't preach to you. You can still get pregnant using the condom as it is not 100% safe. Even birth control pills are not 100%. And yes spotting can continue for a day but if it gets worse please see your doctor. You are most likely sick to your stomach due to all the emotional feelings you have. Just relax and think about what you did and where you are going. Chances are in two months you will not even know this guy anymore. What you have is special and don't just give it away to guys. Be sure of your feelings and know the difference between lust and love. Guys just lust so be careful. Take care of yourself.
2006-06-16 04:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jocko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were not really ready for this. You were probably tense and nervous and I guess it wasn't all that great either. You wisely used protection, condom is fairly safe. The only way you'll know if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test after three weeks.
What kind of relationship do you have with your bf? Not eating, scared of getting pregnant, cramps. These are signs that you are extremely worried about what you did - please don't worry so much. It's done now. If there is a next time with this bf, make sure you are in the mood for it, make sure you are relaxed,do it in a nice comfortable place with a bathroom so that you can wash yourself after and relax there. Talk to your bf about your worries, after all, he seems to be part of the problem.
2006-06-16 04:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine, You're not pregnant. You're new at this game so it might seem scary that you could get pregnant, but if the condom didn't break then there are very small chanes of getting pregnant.
Also, feeling like throwing up doesn't mean that you are pregnant. Not a day after you had sex at least. You would be throwing up after like a week or two, and not a day after.
Don't worry and remember, always use protection.
2006-06-16 04:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an old woman, but I remember feeling like you did. Yes, the first time hurts and yes you bleed. I guess my advice is to make sure that sex is really what you want in your life. You will feel a connection to this guy for the rest of your life.Anytime you have sex, your body releases a hormone that makes you want to connect to the man. Men do not have the same hormone. If this ends, you will feel very let down. Be careful about giving yourself to someone.
2006-06-16 04:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by c m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing! that is all normal. you are freaked out because now that you done the deed all these health class lessons are bombarding you!
don't worry about it, but look into the birth controll, a lot of them can make you feel icky and none of them are fail-safe. you are only a kid and you can really screw up your life with sex. not just getting pregnant. but there are a lot of things that can emotionally screw you up. having sex is not just having fun, it makes an emotional connection between you and your partner. you waited til you were 18 so you must understand a lot of the maturity issues already, but there is still so much for you to do and have fun doing without the added strain of sex.
2006-06-16 04:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have saved yourself for when you got married, what a great gift you could have given a man! You gave away the best thing you have (had), hope the guy stays with you. As far as getting pregnant, it is always possible if any semen escapes. All the other stuff you talked about is pretty normal..... Some of the women will answer that for you.
2006-06-16 04:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by skyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie calm down, since this was your first time it is possible that you will feel that way, it is normal.... there is a tablet you can take within 72hours of having unprotected sex (but u wore a condom) but i am sure that from sex ed class you were told that no contraceptive is a 100% effective, so speak with your phamarcist they will tell you what you need to do, by the way the tablet i a talking about is call postinor 2.
PS. Since you have become sexually active you now need to speak with your doctor to see which contraceptive is best for you. ok
All the best
2006-06-16 04:12:06 · answer #11 · answered by Resurrected 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋