my bf has went to a juvi camp at 3 am this morning and i dont know what to do i am sad i cant stop crying i have no one to talk to he has 6 months and its like my life is over i am depressed, lost, sad, hurt, worried, and scared i really really need help this is not a joke please somebody help me please
2006-06-16 03:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but u guys dont under stand i really love him and people can change and i promised him i would still be here for him when he gets out its liek a part of me is gone i need him
2006-06-16 03:57:54 · update #1
i am 16 and so is my bf
2006-06-16 03:58:33 · update #2
i am in spin chat so if you care go there and my nick name is tinkerbell2girl let me know before u go give me a nick so i can lokk for ya please i need help this way would be better
2006-06-16 04:04:08 · update #3
if he's in juvi camp you should prolly take that as a sign to get out now while u still can....and i'll tell you what...i was with a guy like that once....he went to jail for 90 days on drug charges...i stayed with him bc i thought he could change...i was with him for a year...never quit drugs or selling them...and he cheated on me the whole time...i'll never do that again. i also tried to change another one of my ex's...wasted 3 years of my life with him and i have a 7 month old with him that he dont want anything to do with
2006-06-16 04:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's not the end of the world. You will feel better within a couple days. I do agree tho, even tho you make think you love him, he doesnt sound like a very good catch and will probably get worse and get you into trouble also. Maybe this happened so that you guys would grow apart and you can move on. Hey it could be worse, I'm 18 and my bf is heading to Baghdad on Tuesday. At least you know your bf will come home.
And another thing.... people won't change. They can put up a front like they have and they're a "better person" but deep down he'll always be the same. I tried changing my ex and he ended up being a drug dealer who cheated on me. I left him and I am completely happy with my new boyfriend. Don't waste your time waiting for him to get out and change because it won't happen and you will just regret it.
2006-06-16 12:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i know how you feel i was 14 and pregnat when my boyfriend went to jal he was in there for half a year i almost lost it but he helped me through it a lot this was the begining of 2005 you just prove to him that u will stay true to him and how much u love him forget what all the other girls are saying about leaving him if u truley love him stay true thats all u can do and dont cry your man dont want to see no tears in your eyes just think about the happy moments if u ever wanna talk about this again (i have been through it with my now husband and all of my brothers) just email me and i will rite u back i hope this was good advice
2006-06-16 12:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by slb_angel_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i have never been in this situation but my guess would be that you are around my age (16) or so and i know that i would not break up with him and find a new guy just because of that the christian thing to do it forgive right?" right. and people deserve second chances...i hope you feel better hun if you need to talk i am on aim at sad luv letters
hope your day gets better
2006-06-16 10:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by already a mother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl it's not the end of the world. It may seem like it now, but what you need to do right now is not worry, don't stress yourself out on something you have no control over. I know for a fact, if he cared about you, he would not want you to sit in the house crying, moping around until he comes back. Don't you think that when he comes back he will want a happy and supportive girlfriend to come back to?? Think on it. The best thing yoiu can do for him now is to not stress yourself out. Send him letters, let him know that your there for him, and will be there for him when he gets out. Right now, he really, really, really needs for you to be strong for the both of them. Can you do that for him? Think on it.
2006-06-16 10:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by So_ova_the_drama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off your boyfriend is a loser. only loser end up in those places. second its not the end of the world. third you dont need a loser for a boyfriend fourth you will meet someone new in a few days or weeks and forget all about the other. finally how old are you . you sound to young to be this attached
2006-06-16 10:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a boyfriend who has gone to jail? My advice, get a new boyfriend. He's already in juvi, and it's probably just going to get worse. Get some new friends...
2006-06-16 10:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel me and my bf were seperated for about a month b-cuz he had to go out of town it's lk ur life is over and a part of u is gone
2006-06-16 11:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up a deal with it he must have done somthing bad to go to prison because thats what it is afterall prison for kids, write him a letter that's all you can do do some thinking to you want to be involved with somone who's broken the law not a very good start is it,,
2006-06-16 10:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who would even need to be sent away? He sounds like trouble and eventually, you'd be doing the bad things he was doing. Time heals all wounds.
2006-06-16 10:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋