They really try to run your life with no room for you in YOUR life???
2006-06-16 03:46:30 · 19 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love them and tell them there always right of course :)
2006-06-16 03:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by laura w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try talking to HER about it. She might not know she is that way. If so, and it was gradual, you should've maybe brought it up before it got worse. If it's always been that way, she may have learned to be that way from her upbringing so talking to her will probably help. Maybe come up with ways you can remind her when she's being too controlling so she will back off a littlte. Just be patient, it won't get fixed over night. Good luck!
2006-06-16 03:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is with you and the wife questions? If you are messing around with a married man shame on you. You should have more respect for yourself. Find someone that is single and let it go girl. Men very rarely leave their wife for a different piece of ***. You need to keep in mind that they have grown with each other, possibly have children, and a life outside of your bedroom affair. Grow up. Wake up.
2006-06-16 03:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember 2 things be kind to your spouse in a way that you can never be accused of"not caring"and most importantly never ask can you do something.Tell her what you are going to do.(be resonable) In the long run she will respect you for it.
2006-06-16 03:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by ga44male 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! This is not a good situation. There needs to be compromise in every situation. You should not give in on everything because soon you will lose your own identity. Talk to her and tell her she needs to compromise if the relationship is going to work out.
2006-06-16 03:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rethink the reasons WHY you married that person. Then ask yourself if there is ANY reason at all that is still worth staying in that relationship. If there is - then talk about it, be honest, try to work it out. If not - leave
2006-06-16 04:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wives ? did i hear you right? it's difficult to control one not to talk of more, you are asking for impossibility, in case you don't know women rules the world. accept it and have less problem
2006-06-16 03:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she was once a controlling and never wrong girlfriend. Guess what you did with her then- you married her. You made your bed now sleep in it.
2006-06-16 04:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by ICUD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit fuc*ing up! That is the easiest way. They all know more than us and they rule the nest. Deal with it and be happy that she likes you enough she would marry you.
2006-06-16 03:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only have control if you don't stand up to them --- lessons I learned from being married to a man that tried to control me --- I stood up for myself(when he tried putting me down - I learned to say, that's your opinion I don't accept it ) --- eventually he left and found another woman who wouldn't stand up for herself...
2006-06-16 03:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i totally agree everybody needs their space...and if you have controlling and perfect wife then you are gone.
I would suggest you not to complain about them....she is like that so let her remain like that...dont try to change her because she is never gonna change...only one thing which is in your hand would be changing yourself ....i dont mean that you have to sacrifice your hobbies...i would advice you to ignore certain things what she says...be normal and calm....it should work...cherio!!!
2006-06-16 03:51:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋