My boyfriend and I started becoming sexually active last month. After the first time we had sex, my period came a lot sooner than usual (21 days since the time before). We've had sex again since my period ended. We have used a condom each time. Four days ago, I gave him a hand job. He got some of the *** on his fingers. He wiped it off. About ten minutes later, he fingered me.
Two days ago would have been the 21st day since I last got my period. I had cramps the whole day and at the end of the day I bled a little clot of blood. Yesterday and today I have had no cramps and no bleeding whatsoever. I am not sure what that could have been. I know after girls have sex their periods might be a little more irregular. My boyfriend and I are freaking out so if anyone could help I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!
2006-06-16 03:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wow. . . There are so many reasons other than pregnancy that this could be happening. Have you seen a doctor?? I mean, I am very athletic, and have never had a regular cycle due to that alone. Throw in stress, and you have a real fun time with guessing. One year I had a total of 4 periods - and no pregnancies.
My best advice to you would be to see a doctor. You could have some polyps or some other serious condition. You could also be having short periods due to stressing out about being pregnant. Who knows? You won't unless you go to see a doctor. If you are under 18, check and see if you can go to a local Family Planning clinic - they have doctors that can help you, and may be able to get you birth control for a reduced fee/free based on your income.
Good luck!!
2006-06-16 03:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes having an orgasm can cause mild cramping. But I really want you to go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test. Stress will also mess with your period, stop, start, and come at different times. But like i said,head to the pharmacy so you both can relax.
2006-06-16 11:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a little. The cramping is a good sign!
2006-06-16 10:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no Dr. , But you should get that check-out by one. It sound like something is really wrong with you body that ain't cool.
2006-06-16 11:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ta-Tanisha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its both
2006-06-16 10:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Katie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋