I have been best friends with her for 7 years. In high school she dated my cousin. Everyone told me that she was just using me to get to my cousin. When we started college I met someone. She broke my cousins heart and didnt want me to have a boyfriend either. She went WILD and decided that she didnt want to have anything to do with me when my boyfriend was around ( which was NEVER). So now that we are out of college she wants to go out and do things with me again. I love her to death and I actually still consider her my best friend, but we never talk.... Should I resume our friendship or should I just let it go???....I now feel like she was just using me, But I really miss her being around and bein there for me.... HELP.... What should I do?
THANKS!!
2006-06-16 03:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by tashas33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds crazy; if you keep her around, she is going to continue to try to controll you. Drop her.
2006-06-16 03:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by RX2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a toxic friend like that back in college. One of the best things that ever happened to me was losing touch with her. Sometimes, people will come and go from your life and only time will prove if they will be true friends. This girl doesn't sound like she's such a reliable friend. She wasn't there for you and now she wants you to be there for her. You might miss her...I missed my crazy friend for a while. But I found other, more rewarding friendships and I realized that I don't have to put up with being treated badly. I hope you realize this too.
2006-06-16 10:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people sometimes get it twisted when it comes to using someone. if you feel used is because you allowed yourself to be used. those are the things that friends do. you shouldn't consider yourself as being used. back her up, and when you think she is wrong let her know that, don't keep it to yourself that will have you feeling the way you are feeling now. approach the problem after all you love her, love is worth sacrifice.
2006-06-16 10:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her go. There are a lot more people in the world to be friends with. If you feel she used you then she doesn't deserve you for a friend.
2006-06-16 10:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by michigansponge1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but it sounds like she is just using you i had afriend the same and im no longer friends with her, at the end of the days its her loss and you should make friends with people that value your friendship and don't treat you like she does. Good luck.
2006-06-16 11:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leting go the things in this world is the most difficult thing to do because we are human and we easily get use to things but hardly let go,we always know what is the right thing to do but we do what is easier for us and we dont think about future,today you can choose what is best for you,i know its hard but its not harder than the reasons of bad choices in future,
2006-06-16 11:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she is just using you. You can continue the friendship if you want similar events to keep happening, but I'd suggest ending it.
2006-06-16 10:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by dulcetpurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop ur friendship with her because she might be again use u.
2006-06-16 10:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Naiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋