would you have sex before marriage?

Question

I wouldn't its agianst my religion

Answer 1

no way

Abstinence ROCKS!!

Answer 2

No, sex is supposed to be the last step in intimacy, so if you had sex before marriage what's left? If you do have sex before marriage and then get married all your marriage is just living together doing something that you were already doing. The whole point of sex is having kids and if you have kids before your married who's says that he/she is going to stay with you, but if you are married you are most likely going to trust the person to stay around because that is way you married them.

Answer 3

Sex before marriage - the answer is NO.If you had it before then what is left after marriage ? The innocent feeling, the body chemistry,the shyness on each other face,this experience is the wonderful in life.Above all the care, sacrifices and promises made to each other are of great values which remain forever.The marriage is the bond of faith.Sex and faithfulness are the base - undoughtedly.

Answer 4

Out of respect for my partner and my self - NO WAY. Sex is very intimate and should be reserved for that time when you are married. Sex before marriage devalues the sacred union. Don't buy all this crap that you have to test drive a car first and look under the hood. People are not cars. Respect yourself, your future partner and your future children. Set an example for them to follow.

Answer 5

When you have sex with a person, you become a part of that person. If you fornicate, by the time you get married, you have become "one" with several other people. Thats why God doesn't want you to have sex before marriage. You have all these other souls in your bed when you are married. That could cause conflict.

For those who have had sex before marriage, you can ask God for forgiveness and spiritually "divorce" those you have become "one" with and become a virgin again.

Answer 6

Yep, if I didnt, I wouldnt have my kids. I think you you should see what's out there before you settle. I'm glad with my decision. I at least know my first time on my wedding night wont suck. I think people judge too quickly about things. People that don't have sex before marriage are considered prudes while people that do have sex before marriage are considered sluts. I was with one other guy before I met my fiance and I'm glad I did. I know i'm not going to cheat on my fiance. That was my big thing. My mom and dad had only been with each other. Well, when I was 16 my mom wanted to see what she "could've had" and cheated. I don't want that

Answer 7

I don't have sex... my fiancee and I believe that it is a sin to have sex before marriage... we believe that by abstaining, the Lord will bless our marriage and life together :) We have been together 4 years... and are getting married October 28th :)

It's hard to be strong this day in age -- Good Job!

Answer 8

well, it's all biological....but with dovorce rates the way they are, even though it's against religion in general, i say live with someone for at least 6 months (and of course, you're going to have sex if you're living together) before you decide to pop the question....unless you both are extremely religous, then i'm sure you will be able to overcome differences and the shock associated with living (and having sex) with someone after you're married.....

Answer 9

Yes

Answer 10

change you r religion or get married asap then.

I would NEVER marry a woman, which I did not "try out" before.
What if she is real bad bad at having sex or owuldhave totally different oppinion. Its really pretty dumb, to not have sex before marriage. Yes, its my oppinion, fine if you have yours. Good luck with your "blind" marriage.

btw. I dont believe in God.

Answer 11

If you truthfully have strong beliefs and convictions then stick to the. But for me, I just have values and stick to no religion. Serious relationships with high potential for a favorable turnout will be a possible sexual experience.