my mum has been in an abusive relationship for 11 years and still needs my suport. when do i say ...deal with it?
2006-06-16 03:31:12 · 11 answers · asked by blahblahblah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when?? right now, take control of your life and happiness.
2006-06-16 03:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by BelleVie 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There is no time limit for a sibling to support his / her mother. The right answer is until she leaves this world. Are U bored or feel burden supporting your mother? Besides U, Who else do U think will support your mother ? Are U being fair to your mother? If not your mother, who do U think will give birth to U to this beautiful world? Your mother sacrifice her life to give birth to U to this world. It is a matter of life and death.( Watch Give Birth video) U will feel scary and unbelievable watching it. Don't be ungrateful child. U should take care of your mother and support her ,protect her, love her, if need be safe her from any danger. Make her happy, give what she want if U can.Don't neglect her. Never never make her tears to role down her cheek because of U. Think of it deeply.
2006-06-16 10:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by abta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support her with a number of the local shelter and abuse hot-line . there are different kinds of support, mostly she just needs to know you still care about her and let the experts handle the rest. just let her know you love her but you also have a life to live and if you are tired of "dealing with it" tell the cops of the abuse that is going on and let them "deal with it"
2006-06-16 10:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the rest of your mother life!!! the sad song will come when she is gone, you didnt see how she was suffering on your birth, support her forever like you never want to leave her, dont cry when she cries.
2006-06-16 10:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by King Quest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she needs to leave and get out of it and if she chooses not to help herself then it wont do you a bit of good to keep helping and supporting her! She has to live with the choice she makes everytime she chooses to stay with him and put up with him doing this to her. She is choosing to stay a victim instead of getting out and getting the help that she needs.
2006-06-16 12:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Urge her to get into a therapy group for abused women ---- get her the info and phone number and then you start backing off slowly....
2006-06-16 10:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for her to get out. tell her that and if she does not take your advice than stop giving it and stop listening to her. tell her your sick of seeing her get hurt and therefore she is on her own till she ends the relationship.
2006-06-16 10:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by guerisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the name and number of a womens shelter..she alone has to make the decision of when enough is enough
2006-06-16 10:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by ksbeckaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long did she take care of you. note taking care may also be tough love (deal with it) make her wake up
2006-06-16 10:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now.....b4 it is too late.God bless.
2006-06-16 10:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋