so my "best friend" has been living with me for about 5 months and from the moment she moved in she's been moochin off me and then being a completely disrespectful b*tch about everything.... most of the time i just let the little stuff slide because i hate drama. she usually doesn't stay at my house she usually will go party and stay wherever (she doesn't have a job) well last night i decided id go party with some friends that she doesn't hang out with and i went back home this morning to shower and go to work, to find her in bed with some random dude.... mind you it was MY BED!!!!! so the question is how should i handle it? because as of right now i just wanna beat the sh*t out of her.
2006-06-16 03:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask her to move out, straight up, this is just too much.
2006-06-16 03:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. Perhaps if you tell her that you need for her to help pay half of the rent and utilities that my help. Just explain that now you need her help you out like you helped her and you can't afford the added expenses anymore. Either she will go mooch of somebody else or she will get a job. As for the bed thing, maybe you should ask her how she would feel if she found somebody having sex on her bed and now she had some strange guy's jiz all over her sheets. Gross!
Good Luck.
2006-06-16 03:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Advice:
If you suspected this was going to happen, you shouldn't have let her move in,
Tell her to get a job in one week and if she don't tell her to move out and then if she refuses cal the cops,
OH Yeah, burn those sheets and get a new bed.
2006-06-16 03:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by baby_genius2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, I have a feeling that you knew that stuff like this would probably happen if you let this girl live with you. Deep down inside, you knew. So just relax and deal with it. Either that, or kick her out. she's not gonna change.
2006-06-16 03:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her 1 week to find another place to live. Change the locks.
2006-06-16 03:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Worry? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you plan to have a dog and you are sure your dog would be allergic to her .When she stares at you in disbelief,tell her that it breaks your heart that you have to sacrifice this friendship for a dog.
I am sure she will be out in no time.....when she is gone ,change all the locks.
Good luck.
2006-06-16 03:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your gonna have to ask her to pack her bags and move on.
2006-06-16 03:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks notice to be fair change locks why should you put up with it
2006-06-16 03:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her she is a freeloader and a whore, and that she needs to find herself another place to live.
2006-06-16 03:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she got to start saving up money and she got to start looking for some place to go to she can not be with you for life.
2006-06-16 03:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋