I sumitted about being 16 and 7 months pregnetand I was asking how I can get my boyfriend/babys daddy to get a job.Many people said "Leave Him" and others said "Put the baby up for adopition" well to be honest Would you put your child (your own flesh in blood) up for an adopition not knowing weither or not it would be happy or loved?? If so thats your choice...Not mine!!!!Another thing he and I have been through h3ll and back so really I can't just drop himlike we never happened...You see he has no one his mom is a drunk ***** and she is always threating us with DHS/DCH and yes he is 19 but its like she thinks he is like 4 still and I dunno what to do about not in so many words having her step up and relieze he is no longer a baby.Everyone kept telling me he doesn't care and he won't work....well he was starting to go out and constintly calling and going to the places ,but all of a sudden his mom was beat by her man and dude was put in jail and now ''Teddy"(my b/f)is like got his head.
2006-06-16 03:21:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
up her a*s*s and is afraid she is gonna get murdered by dude or his bro.Now its like hes not even caring about the welfare of our son. My mom moved out and gave us the house and said "you to want to play house....well here you go" She makes us pay bills and checks in randomly to make sure its clean and we have food ....but yet we still have to do it on our own...she is very supportive, but wants us to learn from what we choose behind her back,and his mom hasn't done a d*a*m*n thing and he stills throws away everything when she has turned her back for the worst ...Where do me (andCaleb) or baby stand? What should we do .... she is old enough my mom moved out so why is it ok for his phsyco mom to live with us ...she didn't help with him why do I want her to help with my son??????
2006-06-16 03:30:22 · update #1
she is olny staying a couple days but still thats too long I did say what I thought about everything last night by screaming in my mans face!
2006-06-16 03:48:48 · update #2
what i think you need to do is get your man and his mother out of your house (or your moms house). admit to your mom that you've made a mistake and you need her help...you said she's supportive if you ask her for help and get rid of ur bf she will prolly help you...you can work at 8 months...but i think you need your rest. i left my babys daddy a month before i had my son...best thing i ever did...my mom helped me and supported us until i moved out. you should wait until atleast 2 months after your baby is born to work. i wouldnt give your baby his dads last name (im having issues with that mistake myself bc u cant change it without his dads permission if he signs the birth certificate) call your local child support agency now so you can start filling out paperwork and get child support when your son is born. you need to get yourself out of this stressing situation now! being this stressed/or depressed can effect your baby later in life. i hope the best for you and your baby but only you can help yourself and your child right now by getting him out of your house
2006-06-16 04:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you tried kicking her out.
2006-06-16 10:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know
2006-06-16 10:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋