What is it about women that they keep asking for good men, but truely only want the bad boys?

Answer 1

When you find the answer it will probably also be the answer to "Why do men lust after little victim pricesses?".
I guess men and women who pick the wrong partners for themselves are likely lusting after someone physically, and are convinced that they can help the other person. They either need to feel that they are better than the person they are partnered with, or they need to feel that others see their self inflicted pain as a sacrifice and proof of how much they care for the idiot they chose.
You need to start hanging out with older more mature women who enjoy their independence. Women who aren't trying to use you, because they have what they need in themselves. Women who want to share their lives with you. Stop hanging out with women of lesser intelligence, who enjoy drama, are lazy, and enjoy being victims of the circumstances they created for themselves. Stop looking for women who want to suck the life out of you.

Answer 2

Well because we want the best of both worlds...the security that comes from being with a good boy; good job, clean cut, nice dresser, smells good, has his own life. The bad boy part is not afraid to take a risk, lives on edge a bit, is spontaneous. Sometimes the lure of the bad wins out over the good. I think there are ways to bring out the good and bad in most men. Still some are truly bad and some are truly good.

Answer 3

Both sexes tend to be dumb when it comes to relationships. They want the person who's the most attractive and most interesting, but then want that person to suddenly stop being the center of attention and focus on only them.

Some women just want a project. They see something in a guy that's really not there. He's not tough on the outside and sweet once you get to know him. A lot of the time he's just a jerk to the bone.

My theory on relationships: A man marries a woman knowing that she'll never change. A woman marries a man knowing she can change him. The men don't change, the women do, and no one is happy.

Be happy with yourself, find someone who is happy with themself, and the two of you will be happy forever. Look past physical appearance, finances, social status, etc. and find someone that you get along with. That's the only important thing in life.

Answer 4

From discussions I have had and heard, it seems to be that many women see the bad boy as a challenge, that they can change him into their own version of what a good boy is supposed to be.

Many eventually realize this is a waste of time. That is how accountants eventually find someone to marry. I should I know.

Answer 5

Most females want someone who cares about them not the "bad boys." Either you are paying attention solely to the ones who do this or the type of girls you are going after are immature. Around 25 most females have awoken from their daze and start realizing that the "bad boys" will get them nowhere.

Answer 6

We get attracted to bad boys like fire, but we can only get burnt so many times. I have a Good boy and I like it.

Answer 7

most women want both...How I look at it is we confuse you guys...We think you should know when to be bad and when to be good. ( I just figured that out) No one really wants someone to always be nice or always be bad... the best saying for this is "Have your cake and eat it too"

Answer 8

We don't. We truly want a good man and when we finally find him (gotta kiss a LOT of toads first), we treasure him.

Answer 9

They subconsciously don't feel like they deserve the good guy

Answer 10

we r weird we want different things