why do 13 to 15 yr old girils like older men?

Question

I have a 14 yr old always goes for these older men and they all end up wanting one thing and she gives in.
(she's my niece)

Answer 1

That's illegal.

Answer 2

It is usually because they are looking for a Father Figure to love them, usually due to a lack of love and approval from their real dad--or maybe he was an "absent dad" while they were growing up.
The other reason is that they are so naive, that they fall for promises, illusions and charms which older men use to just have their way with these young girls. The men are called pedophiles and should be jailed and castrated immediately!

Answer 3

because the older men want them!! I bet your niece did not have a real good father as a role model and that is what she is looking for. Just someone to hold her and tell her he loves her or when she is having sex with them at that moment she feels wanted and loved

Answer 4

Where is this girls father? I have a 15 year old daughter and I worry about the same thing. Generally, girls who do not get a lot of love and affection from their fathers, seek it in fatherly figures. Unfortunately, they mistake sex for love. Someone needs to tell this girl that sex and love are not the same thing. This is a very dangerous game she is playing. If you don't feel right talking to her, talk to her parents about it. She needs to be protected, she is to young to be doing this and she will regret it later if somebody doesn't intervene. She will hate you for it at first, but years from now, she will be grateful.

Answer 5

It's a maturity thing---older men are maturer. But, ironically, if that were the case, then why would they date underage girls?

*Note: In Spain it's customary(and acceptable)for an older man to date a prepubscent girl. *Ick*

Aria

*The illnovelist*

Answer 6

its not even just girls age 13-15. a lot of girls like guys older than them because females tend to mature more quickly than males. they want someone on their maturity level. i have always gone for guys at least a little older than me for that very reason. however, if these men are a lot older than her, she probably does it to make herself feel older and wanted. if older guys want her, then that makes her feel hot. it could also be lack of father figure, and mistaking sex for love. she needs to understand that if she keeps giving in, her relationships aren't going to last.

Answer 7

not all 13 to 15yr old girls want or likes older men...actually, i'm 14 yrs of age...but i don't like older men somewhat 4 or even 3 yrs older than...maybe, it just depend on the girl...but to tell honestly me, and my friends sme age with me really don't like men older than us...

Answer 8

They feel that the boys their own age are silly and immature. It sounds like your niece needs more supervision and restrictions.

Answer 9

you're both too youthful to this element and "merely hug, makeout, and say i love you". courting on my own at your age could be out of the question. you may both spend time which contain friends. communicate with your mothers and fathers with an open thoughts about at the same time as it really is proper to this element on my own with a boyfriend.

Answer 10

sounds like she just wants love from another person than family or friend. and like most teens, they think sex equals love, when it doesn't. i would try to convince her that all she wants is love, and all she needs to do is wait for love and she'll get it. it'll pop into her lap, but hanging out with all those guys that just want sex isn't good for her emotionally and physically. they are going to lower her self esteem and make her always think that sex equals love. sooner you get her to figure it out, the sooner she'll learn.

Answer 11

i dont know but it pissis me off because us freshman dont have a chance now to the junors or seniors and it sounds like your niece is a PROSITUTE