And that the husband is a good man.
2006-06-16 03:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go out and do things that are fun, and both of you enjoy doing. Talk, have fun, and COMMUNICATE(talk, and listen to each other)....I mean REALLY listen, not just hear. Good LUck!
2006-06-16 03:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to sit down together and talk! Set up a date and time possibly in a quiet restaurant that they both enjoy. Staying positive is the key, they both need to keep things on a positive note. Start by talking about the good times they had, talk about the wedding day itself and then slowly get into the issues that seperated the two of you. If you both love each other and are willing to forgive and start over, things can be even better than they were. It does require both people to remain positive and make an effort to get things going again.
Good question
2006-06-16 10:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something new together. Completely novel, like going kayaking or something crazy. Not too crazy, but something new. But I think what you need to do first before any of that is try this experiment that I've tried and it's worked. What you do is find a quiet place, just the two of you in a room, and you sit across from each other, and just stare into each others eyes for TWO whole minutes. It's okay if you can't help but laugh, but never loose the contact, and don't talk until the time is up. Staring into each others eyes helps reconnect to the soul, and helps you find things you forgot of haven't seen before. Once the time is up talk to each other freely. If you have nothing to say that's okay, if you have a lot to say, but he has nothing to say that's okay too, and visa versa. Just let it come out freely. That should help you reconnect. And then following that, make a date for yourselves, and if you have kids, don't talk about them on your date, talk about the two of you, or something that interests you or anything. Just talk! Hope this helps!
2006-06-16 10:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient Love is Kind if he is saying the goodbye then let him go but let him know that you are wiling to compromise on the issues to make both of you happy. Really need more info into the situation. Don't give up. but don't be needy or pushy most men are turned on when they find there woman will be more that capable and happy to go on with out them. I woke up one morning to my husband asking for a divorce outs the blue. I was hurt I screamed and cried then packed his bags and told him to go if he did not want to be with me the there was no reason to try. He left but came crawling back and hour later. he-he not guaranteed to always work though..
2006-06-16 10:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance the socks off of him. Seek to flirt with him and dress nicley for him when you see him. Hold his hand and go out on dates with him. Spend time doing things with him that he likes to do. Call him just because and to say hi and that you are thinking of him througout the day. Tell him that she still loves him and would like another chance with him! Great site is at http://www.marriagetoday.org or http://www.marriagebuilders.com
Hope this helps you some and i wish you the best in winning your husband back... You go girl!!!!
2006-06-16 12:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you read The Rules? This series of books has a lot of good suggestions for those situations.
2006-06-16 10:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..Why was there a divorce it there was still love there? Seems to me the divorce was rushed instead of trying to work things out....
2006-06-16 10:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm relationship confusions
2006-06-16 10:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋