My mates say she really fancies me and wants to date me but I am not sure. She is really pretty and has gone out with much older boys and even a 20 year old. If I dated her she would propably want to do sex and I am not really sure if I can, I am not very developed yet and in fact I have never even kissed a girl before. Will I have to use a condom and can you get them in in boy sizes.
2006-06-16 03:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I can think of three possible answers to your problem.
1. This girl is playing with you, she knows she is pretty and the confusion she could cause in the mind of an innocent twelve year old boy. Girls at this age can be very cruel and spiteful.
2. You are taking her flirting the wrong way. She may find you cute but in a little brother way. It could be your mates are winding you up telling you she is more interested in you than she really is. They are probably hoping you will make a fool of yourself if you ask to date her.
3. This girl does in fact have sexual feelings towards you it is not impossible. Grown women have had relationships with boys younger than twelve. Unfortunately there are female paedophiles. If this is the case stay away from her, your are far to young to enter into such a relationship and you will only be hurt in the end as this young woman wants you for only one thing.
My instinct tells me that number 2 is probably closest to the truth, she is probably just flirting with a young boy she finds cute in a little brother way.
I don't think you can get twelve year old boy size condoms.
2006-06-16 04:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by zach p 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't have sex if your 12. Ask your parents about the situation. You're much too young to go out with a 17 year old. When you graduate, that'd be fine. But don't have sex, it's not the right thing to do!
2006-06-16 05:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You silly little boy of course this young lady doesn't fancy you. One of the posts mentioned that you should talk to your parents. I agree and I hope your mother takes down your trousers and gives your bottom a good smacking for even thinking about thinks like that at your age.
2006-06-16 21:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by mz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's way to old for you, I can understand that it may be really flattering to have a pretty older girls attention but she's going to be ready to do things at her age that you are not ready for yet. Please consider this, Don't ruish growing up it will come soon enough and the wait will be worth it.
2006-06-16 03:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah right buddy. no 17 year old girl will want to date a 12 year old. what can you do for her. not much. you are barwly into puberty. you arent old enough to work or drive, no girl wants to drive he boyfriend everywhere. wait til shes 23 and your 18 then you might have a chance
2006-06-16 03:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay okay okay! you say you are 12!? sex is for when you get married okay!if all shes looking for is sex then no she doesnt fancy you. And if youre not developed then you probably wont be able to *** for the time being!just STAY THE FREAK AWAY FROM HER!
2006-06-16 05:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Behey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is making you aware of feelings that are normal, but what is NOT normal is HER trying to get your attention. This is more like child abuse if she pursues you. DO NOT humor her attemps by EVER being alone with her.
You are a great KID, enjoy your childhood and do NOT be in a hurry to give up your childhood dude!
2006-06-16 03:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is way too old for you.
sorry, hon, but she is on a totally different level than you are.
maybe what you see as flirting is her way of being nice to you in a "little brother" kind of way.
just enjoy her attention and don't let it get to you. set your girlfriend sights on someone closer to your age and maturity.
take care.
2006-06-16 03:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you lie to us? you know you are not 12 years old. If you are I say do her man.
2006-06-16 03:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sure if you can? When she puts her lips on your member, you'll know what to do!
2006-06-16 05:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Death_Merchant100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋