i take pain killers not to kill the pain?

Question

i take pain killers all the time because i am depresed everything going on in my life is just to much to bear last night i took 32 iveprofin and 10 asprin all because my mom thinks i smoke weed and she found out i cut my wrists and she won't let me go to the carnevl with my bf because i told her i had sex with my bf and i have so many issus can you please give me some advice i don't want to see a councaler i need you to help me befor i kill myself

Answer 1

My dear ,i have 4 dauthers and ive been through hell with them.and i can surly tell you that hurting your self well make your life worse
you well understand that as you get older,But think for a minute if you had a little girl and she was running around with a boyfriend what would you do ,ive had so many nights sitting up scared to death one of my girls would get hurt or pregant,and it did happen one of my twins did get pregant,but since then she has become a nurse so it all work out good.and she hurt her self a few times,it broke my heart to see her do ing this to her self.so many nights i would stay up all night driving around looking for her,the police would have raids on her boyfriends house
over and overone night they had 3 raids they,they found her in the attic.with this iam just trying to say its hard to be your age and alot of things do not make since.ive tryed to teach my girls some rules to reamber.1.depend on no one
but your self.2.your bestfriend is the one that will hurt you and destroy all the trust you thought you had.3.look at your future and find out what you need to do to make your life happy
.because your the only one that can make your self the happiest.4.And show everyone that you can make it without there help.
you will need help but get the right help.
i know at your age it seems like everyone is against you.and that no one understands you,if you cant talk to your mom and you dont have a sister try and find someone that you can realy trust.i hope this help you a little,my girls are 35,21,20,20 and one boy whos 25.GOOD LUCK,youll make it dear just dont hurt your self it wount help at [e-mail]

Answer 2

First, Ibuprofen and Aspirin will not do anything to help your mood. You would have to take prescription narcotic painkillers to have any psychological effect, so stop taking all the pills. It will kill you and won't even make you feel better.

Second, you need help. If you're not into counselling, you can try antidepressants. Within days you may even begin to see that your life is not that bad (I did). You need to sit down and talk to your mom about what's going on. Tell her that you need her help and support. She is worried about you and just wants to try to protect you, but what parent has all the answers for a situation like this? GET HELP. Even talk to her about having sex with your boyfriend. Tell her you want to have an intelligent conversation about it, including why you did it, the risks and consequences. If you are going to continue to have sex with your bf, you need to be on birth control and I hope you are already using condoms.

Third, what is really so terrible about your life? I don't know, there could be all kinds of things you haven't mentioned. You need to look deep inside and really try to answer that question. Most likely, there is not really anything that horrible. Your brain is just interpreting things as bad because of the teenage fluxuations in your body chemicals and hormones. That is why you need professional help. If there are real issues in your life, you need to talk to a counselor.

Things may look very dark right now, but remember all the opportunities that you have. Think of all the potential. If you die, you will never get to hang out with your bf again. You will never go to another carnival. You will never know what all you missed. It can be hard to see through the painful, imbalanced haze. See a doctor. Get help. Live your life. The famous quote "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem."

Answer 3

Your not gonna get the help you need on here. You need professional help. Why are you treating your mother so badly dont you know what it would do to your family if you killed yoursef. And your mother not letting you go with your bf after youve admitted to having sex is a good decision by your mother because of the way your acting now by trying to kill yourself just because you didnt get your way. You sound like a spoiled brat that needs a spanking and a wake up call. What would happen if you got pregnant the way your acting so immature about things your mother would end up raising the child because if it cried to much youd say im gonna kill myself. The suside thing has been played to death by teenages for years. Grow the hell up and take some responsibliliy for your actions and maybe your mother will trust you enough to allow you some freedom. If my daughter acted the way you are and doing the things you are doing i would check her a** into a crisis unit immediately.

Answer 4

You just asked a question today about wanting to have sex with your boyfriend...and now you are admiting you already have? Maybe that's one of the reaons you are so depressed! You are trying to grow up way to fast! I don't know how old this guy is that you are dating but he seems to be the root of the problem! He is influencing you to do things that you shouldn't! Maybe give everyone who is concerned about you a post telling us how old this guy is and how you met him! Your mom is just worried about you and probibly becuase of the guy you are dating! She is only concerned about your life! I'm sure she is upset you had sex because you are only 12 and she doesn't want you to ruin your life at such an early age! I'm sure she doesn't want you smoking weed because it is an illegel drug...not saying you have...but If she is thinking you have that is why she is upset!! and obviously she doesn't want you to take your own life! She obviously loves you way to much to see you going down a bad path! She is only trying to help! I think not being able to go to the carnival with your loser boyfriend is the last thing you should be worried about! You don't nessisarily have to go to counciling. You need to find out the root of your depression...assuming it is your boyfriend that is causing all these problems that make you un-happy...you need to get him out of your life and start hanging out with friends and be young! Like I have said in two of my other posts to you...you are growing up way to fast!! Please...for the sake of your health and your life...distance yourself from this guy...get a close relationship with your mom...it will be the best thing for you! My mom is my best friend and it's the most rewarding feeling knowing I can turn to her for anything! You are 12 and if you stop this distruction now you have so much time to turn things around and get your life back on track and find a boyfriend that makes you happy and doesn't cause any problems!

Answer 5

Stop taking all this medication because if u dont die from it then you will cause serious health problems for yourself later. Talk to your mom and explain to her how u feel. Maybe you should both get some therapy. But if you want your mom to trust you then you have to act like a mature, reponsible person(dont take meds all the time and cut yourself). Show your mom that you can take care of yourself and maybe she will let up off you.

Answer 6

I think you need anti-depressants, I've spent a lot of years being depressed and cutting myself, talk to someone, therapist or not, its a sickness and you need genuine help, not from people on the net.

Answer 7

Ok, First you need Mr, Webster in your life, more than you need your lil boyfriend. YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE...before taking it.

Answer 8

If you're so depressed, you shouldn't go to the carnival.
Those are for happy people.

Answer 9

i think you do need a councillar