2006-06-16 02:15:05 · 25 answers · asked by AcuteEye 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes
2006-06-16 11:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To agree with this statement would then say that men and woman who have sex together do not communicate with each other. That they do not teach each other what pleases them. This is entirely not true. Just as a gay man who has a new partner will let his partner know what he enjoys. The same goes for heterosexuals.
Why can a gay man teach another gay man how to give him a bj he will enjoy,
and a heterosexual man cannot also teach a woman to give him a bj he will enjoy. Just by merely being the same sex doesn't give the same sex partners an automatic pleasure know how.
Regardless of the sexes, when people get together to do it - it is all taught and learned. People have different ways they like to be sexually pleasured. Anytime a person hooks up with someone new they will teach their new partner what they like. As well as the longer a couple stays together they will often try different things. Then what sexually pleases them has changed or been added to.
I have seen this question several times posted on yahoo answers and it seems many, not all, but many of the gay community declare gay sex better than heterosexual sex. Is it possible some members of the gay community are trying to convince themselves of something?
2006-06-16 10:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by invisable_id 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so for the girls. Of course I really can't speak for the boys on this, but it is so much better doing ANYTHING with a girl because she knows exactly what you like and what feels good for both of you. Also, we don't feel we have to rush sex like straight couples do - again, I can't really speak for the boys in that respect. Every girl I have been with has been content to just make out for hours, and keep that up for weeks, because making out is really the most fun part of a relationship. : ) When you do go further, they know exactly how to touch how and hold you and everything, whereas with straight couples there's this fundamental riff - men always complain that women are too gentle (ie, don't grasp tightly enough, etc.) and women complain that men are too rough (battering ram, anyone?). This is because they are both trying to satisfy a partner based on what they would like for themselves. With same-sex couples, this actually works.
2006-06-16 10:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say yes on this one. I think it's easier for men to relate to men (and same for women). As with women....we know our bodies and while there are a lot of differences the concept is the same! LOL!!! Did that make sense? I hope so. I know what I'm trying to say. Just not doing a good job verbalizing it!
2006-06-16 12:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the answer was yes then everyone would be gay. If a straight guy grew breasts would he stay at home on a Saturday night playing with them ?
Ask a straight man to describe what he would do to a gay man to bring him to orgasm if $1m was at stake...step back and laugh...they really have not got a clue.
It's more of a mind thing than a body thing, I think, so no.
2006-06-16 09:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by dws2711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a common misconception. We're all individuals, our partners too. We all have likes, dislikes and they are not all the same.
I know what I like to be done to me in bed - and I can do unto others as I would have them do unto me - but that doesn't mean that my bf would like it exactly the same way. Similarly, unless he's a mindreader, he couldn't KNOW what I'd want him to do, but he'd have a basic idea from which to start.
Ok, so my gf doesn't have a d!ck but she'll know where mine could go and from her experience of being with men she'd have an idea of what men like. Ditto for me, I'm one hole and two pairs of lips shy... but I have an idea what I could do with my tongue (and teeth).
The point is that initially, in any pairing of the sexes, it takes trial and error and communication to REALLY know what the other likes and WANTS.
2006-06-21 14:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Gay men. A hot ,sexy woman os what pleasesa man in bed. Not an old , fat Q u e e r .
2006-06-16 09:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its commonly beleivied that guys know guys and what makes them tick, as the same is suggested by and women.
Women might know some tricks for a guy and equally so in reverse...but learning can take an eternity.
2006-06-16 12:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bishop David F. Milne DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm neither but I think that makes sense. They understand how a mans body works, and feels from personal experience.The same with lesbians.
2006-06-16 09:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what I like, and it's rather logical to extend that to my partner. It also takes a bit of learning, because each guy likes different variations on basic things.
2006-06-16 09:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by sailordelta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without a doubt, I have a sailor friend who loves gining head and "wow" does he know how, and do you know the good part- he is only on shore about twice a month. And does he love my 8 inches
2006-06-16 09:21:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋