Is your married life pretty cool?What all problems do you face while living with your spouse?how do you deal?

Answer 1

i love being married
as i am in love with my husband

it is hard because you have more responsabilities

i have to do the house chores / cook / go to work etc

but it is so rewarding as i sleep always with the men of my life

Answer 2

A real marriage is a give and take situation. Some folks from the South probably feel that it is the males responsibility to lead the household, and what he says is the only way a proper household can operate.

I feel this type of marriage suffers because the wife takes on a lesser role, and male dominates too much.

My wife and I have equal say. I married her because for one I value her opinion. The problems are trivial. Toilet seat type of things, etc.

Because we are "even" we deal with problems by talking, and persuading our point of views. Usually the most logical wins the debate.

Married life is cool if you marry the right person. Can be hell if you are dominated and your rights taken away by control.

Control of:
Friends
Money
Liberty
Time
Etc...

Extreme cases can lead to abuse, jealously, and misery.

Answer 3

My married life is pretty cool. This is the second time around for both of us and we have face many challenges. The main one is listening skills. My husband really has problems with that one. The next one is step children. Mine are awful. They think that we are made of money and that Dad is awful for not giving them everything they ask for. They only time we ever hear anything from them is when they want something. He doesn't even get fathers day or birthday cards or phone calls from them on those days

Answer 4

Interesting question. Yes my marriage is pretty cool but every couple has there ups and downs. Every couple is different. The best way to deal is communication which is something that my husband and i currently working on. Thats probably one of the biggest problems most couples face. You have to make the effort to deal with it or you both lose out.

Answer 5

My marriage is great!My problem is my husband is an alcoholic.
We have been married for 6 yrs.And when got married,I knew this.But he was in recovery.Then his mother passed away and that 1st drink,lead to another.So he has tried to quit.But not.Being with him the lies out weigh more any than other problems.He will lie and say that he have stopped drinking,and i will find the bottles hidden somewhere around the house.People will stand by your man because he is a great man.And that is true.But the lies will destroy a marriage.How do i deal with?I'm learning only he can deal with that.

Answer 6

One of my biggest issues is I need my time alone sometimes and when my husband is around, he just looks at me like I'm supposed to come up with something for him to do because he is bored. We don't have $$ to be spending on going out or anything. I have a hobby I enjoy and he whines because he's bored. There are always going to be issues when married though - it's part of the "living under the same roof" thing.

Answer 7

Married life can be cool, married life can suck at times. We face lifes problems, finances, kids, etc. We deal the best we can.

Answer 8

Its awesome being married. I love spending my life with someone so special that I love very much. Someone to cry with and laugh with. Its great being able to see my soulmate every single day of my life. The only thing we really fight about is he never picks up after himself. But as long as I constantly remind him he wil. The key to our happiness is communication and comprimise. We talk about everything. And we always put each other first. I wish everyone could be as happy as us.

Answer 9

It's great and awful. It's real easy to not have to answer to anyone, when you have a partner you have to live differently. There's a time period where you have to hammer things out in the begining but once you have all the rules figured out things are cool.

Answer 10

My marriage was great(husband passed away) We argued like every couple do. But we had 42yrs together and I wouldn't trade it for the world. We always were equal partners in everything. We trusted one another 100%. And we listened to our parents who said" you have to work on a marriage everyday, keep your life interesting and be true to each other.

Answer 11

My married life is amazing!!! I don't face problems, if a problem arises, we face it together. We deal with things together. We both see our marriage as us being literally joined. We do very little singly, accomplish much much more as a team.