So he left me for singlehood, to be more independent to go with another..., say he is coming back and he is trying again and again in a nice way to get back together, how will I know that he has matured, that this is what he realy wants and that this time he will commit his heart and decide to share his life for good with me, how will I know that it is not his hunting side to get me again, the triump of winning me back again, how can I know that this is not another game and after he have me he leaves me again after 6 or so months?
2006-06-16 01:40:13 · 13 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is no easy way 2 know anything in this world.u just have 2 trust his word.try going 2 couples counceling and working out ur porblems before you commit back with him.
2006-06-16 01:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's no way of knowing. he's probably been rejected elsewhere or had enough of having no one, or is probably dealing with one of his insecurities by wanting you back.
there is one thing you could do, though. put him on test. tell him, he has to wait at least 3 months for you to be ready to be in a relationship again. see if he's willing to do it. see how much he continues running after you during this time. see if he loses interest, etc.
coz if he does go elsewhere or forget about it or cause a big fuss, then you'll know he's just looking for the easiest option he has right now (sorry, i know it sounds harsh) - you! so make sure you let him know you're not that "easy", else he'll take you for granted and get up and leave as and when he pleases.
bottom line - make sure you can pull the strings this time!
2006-06-16 01:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this guy!!!! If it was true love he wouldn't have wanted to be with another person to begin with.There is an old saying that goes" love doesn't hurt "and from what you have written he, more than likely will brake up with you whenever he wants to cheat on you or just straight out cheat on you. The answer to your question is it true love this time, well if it wasn't true love the first time it sure isn't the second time around.
2006-06-16 02:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by lornasussanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left you once, he will do it again. You are only convenient now if you keep letting him come to your home to get it on. To hell with that, Baby, there is somebody out there and there is no way to explain it but you will know it. Even if it doesn't work out after a few years, you will have had a beautiful memory because of it. Don't keep letting somebody treat you like a puppet on a string. It will only make you hate them in the end. And when you spend too much time concentrating on one stupid phuccing man who doesn't deserve you anyway, you miss out on the one who may have been right there at your doorstep. Take my word for it. Forget his lame, stuck up butt. Open your door to something new and get on with your life. You are beautiful and somebody(not somebody who leaves you whenever he wants to, and figures he can come back when he wants a piece of ***,) who know the fact that you are beautiful will walk into your life when you least expect it. You will know it, I promise. To Hell with that stupid piece of *&^^%$! Leave him in the weeds. You don't need to waste your time with the likes of men like him! (((Sheri)))
2006-06-16 01:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let him come back. You could do better than that. I think it would be a huge waste of time waiting and seeing what he will and won't do
2006-06-16 01:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u accept the same man who left u, in ur life again it means ur givin him an opportunity 2 dump u again.
if he left u once dat means he never deserved u
2006-06-16 01:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by m wat i m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is full of it let him stay gone he will only be with you till the next one come along its call wasting your time he is not worth it this will become a pattern back and foward
2006-06-16 01:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not true him. He will most likely leave again.
2006-06-16 01:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust someone left you cause of someone else
2006-06-16 01:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweetshima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know. The question is do you trust him? Do you believe him? or is he just lonely and using you.
2006-06-16 01:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Germain 77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋