2006-06-16 00:52:35 · 13 answers · asked by sash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you're hedging your bets and don't want to end up with nothing but, IMO, it's better to be on your own than in a relationship you hate. Perhaps feeling as strongly as you do (i.e "hating" the relationship) will make it easier to take the risk and leave?
The person who you want may indeed just be flirting but you won't know for sure if you don't free yourself up to find out.
Good luck! :-)
2006-06-16 01:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sort out your relationship once and for all before you embark on another. Either get rid or make up. Then you can assess your life and decide whether this person is for you or whether he's just making you feel good about yourself in comparison to your current partner. I had a boyfriend who started a relationship with someone else while I was living with him and it hurt so much. I'd rather he's finished with me first and went to the new woman as a free man - it was a real betrayal.
2006-06-16 07:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hate the relationship then get out!! Let the person you are with have a shot at being happy. Once you are out of the relationship I personally think you should take a break and figure out what you want. If it is still that "someone else" then go for it!
2006-06-16 07:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to separate these two issues. going from one person to the next is never a good idea. Take some time on your own first. If this other person is right for you they'll be waiting for you to get over the bad relationship first. Rebound stuff rarely works out. Fix it move on and learn while you have this great opportunity.
2006-06-16 08:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This other person is not going to let you know how they feel as long as you are in another relationship. First, you should end the relationship. It is not fair to you or the person you are involved with to keep them hanging. After you have resolved this relationship, let the other person know how you feel about them. Maybe then the two of you can hook up and see how things go.
2006-06-16 08:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok firstly you hate your relationship. END IT . Don't go on with it.
Secondly, just because a man flirts with you, it does not mean he is genuine.
Currently he sees you as unavailable, which presents no danger to him. Do you think he would still be flirting and tempting you if you were 100% free and ready to go for a drink with him tonight?
Be careful with your heart & really, if you are not happy with the one you got, move on. Allow them to move on, and be honest with one another.
Broken hearts take years, sometimes lifetimes to mend.
2006-06-16 08:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by super_star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about Respect - for yourself and your partner. If you hate the relationship, get out of it - now!!
That is only fair on the person you are in it with.
Then.......flirt back!!!!
2006-06-16 08:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a break and take a breather, don't start anything with a new person, get out more with same sex mates and have some innocent fun of the non sexual variety.
2006-06-23 03:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by thalia_marks'swife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Frying pan into the fire' springs to mind. Can't you just give yourself a break or is your self esteem so low you think you must have a SOMEONE.
2006-06-16 09:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm flirting techniques
2006-06-16 07:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋