the reason this is happening is youre not playing your role. as a man you have to be confident of yourself and firm. be a man. stick to your decisions and dont be indecisive. when she asks which restaurant yall going to, dont say "its up to you". pick one. show her that she picked the right man to be with. if you dont act like a man then why would she still keep you? im sure she loves you, she is just getting less attracted. i suggest you read "intimate communion" by david deida.
2006-06-16 00:36:50
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answered by firestarter 5
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find out what she thinks she's lacking from the relationship, and if doable, give it to her. If she still is losing interest, and doesn't try to work on things, then let her go. Many women get tired of a routine life.
2006-06-16 02:45:25
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answered by Julie G 3
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I would suggest seeing if she would agree to marriage counseling. That way you can find out the real issues and if there is any saving the marriage. At least if you try counseling you will know that you tried in case things don't work out. Best of luck.
2006-06-16 02:23:16
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answered by G L 2
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Join men's groups on Yahoo. Women initiate 93% of divorces and have great sport doing it. Get emotional support from the men's movement before she cuts you up bad.
2006-06-16 01:05:07
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answered by smile4763 4
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Show your wife you love her. Show your wife you are interested in her. Become friends again. Become lovers again.
2006-06-16 02:31:06
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answered by Eileen C 2
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think it's her hormones have her see a doctor to get it checked out in the mean time just love her and wait and understand that some women need time to heal their hormone balance.
2006-06-16 03:36:43
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answered by montanamom 3
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You need to put the fire and spice back in the relationship. Do something spontaneous. Bring her flowers for no reason. Just DO something!!!
2006-06-16 00:33:17
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answered by ? 6
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Let her go. You don't wanna be with someone who isn't in love with you. Thats not the type of life either of you wants.
2006-06-16 00:30:49
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answered by smurfette_au2000 5
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Try and find out why. Did something change? If so try and work on it together. If there is not fixing it then let her go.
2006-06-16 00:41:02
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answered by Umm Ali 6
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Imagine you just married her & try doing those sweet, little things you did at the begining of your marriage, honey-moon period.
2006-06-16 00:50:55
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answered by goldies 1
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