I want to ask my bf to marry me, but im not sure if he is at the same level as me or not. I am nearly 20 and of to uni in septmeber and i know he is really worried about it. I want to ask him to marry me to show my commitment to him. He completley trusts me, its just the long distance thing for the next three years he said he will find hard. He is 24, so we are both old enough, we have been together for nearly a year and half....
......im just worried that if he is not at that level that it could really mess things up!!! I can't imagine anything worse than asking him and him saying NO!!!!! Good idea or not?
2006-06-16 00:15:05 · 8 answers · asked by H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course you can ask them that is not your problem. Personally, I think that 20 is too young to get married. I'm not saying it hasn't worked for other people but you seem to be going in an exciting direction. Are you ready to get married I mean really prepared because if you are planning on taking it seriously it is a big responsibility. Just being legally old enough doesn't make doing something right. Like teenagers having babies before they are independently responsible. If he is not ready then he is not. Your life is not going to end it will just hurt. I have to tell you though,life will go on you never know maybe you fall away and get back together. If you are meant to be it will happen you have to trust that. Anybody is going to find being away for 3 yeas hard that is common sense. You don't have 2 situations like get an education or stay and marry your boyfriend. Just go on with the long distance relationship. I assume your bf has finished school. If he feels the same way as you maybe he will move near your school to be near. Maybe he won't . Either way you will survive. You can't predict the future you can only do what is right for your life now and let the chips fall where they may.
2006-06-16 00:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by tryingtolearnsomething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 05:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes women can ask that question, but be carefull it is hard doing the long distance thing but that not a good reason t get married, make sure its what you truely want and not just because you think it will show him your commitment
2006-06-16 00:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and have a lot of life to live - and a lot of changes to go through. if the relationship is meant to be, then it will survive the long distance time. why not talk to your guy about it - without actually asking him the question?
2006-06-16 00:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by asherdaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you see what guys have to go through. If you want to marry him...then ask him!
2006-06-16 00:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ask him to marry you after you ask him if he is willing to move to live with you near your university.
2006-06-16 02:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-06-16 00:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him.
2006-06-16 00:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋