What would you do if you were so attracted to someone you had never met (you'd seen his pic and loved it!) and wanted to experience just one night with him - but you're in a great happy relationship that you don't want to ruin (would you just fantasise about him or actually let it happen)?
2006-06-16 00:10:28 · 16 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes people get these "interests"... Worst kinds are for film stars or members of bands...
You are best just fantasising about it... Unless the one and only occassion presented itself... Then take it and look back in fond memory or be glad it was only one night and won't ever happen again!!! ;)
Sometimes, there can be that nagging problem of the "what if" sneaking in...
At the end of the day, it is your choice... I'm sure the person you have these "urges" for will never find out... ;)
2006-06-16 00:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wake up your idea! You haven't seen him before and you want to experience with him? What happens if he is actually someone you don't like, or he has STDs, or he is a drug taker. Why do you want to ruin a great happy relationship and your OWN LIFE? Remember, all it takes is a mistake like this and your life and your family will never be the same again.
2006-06-16 07:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem of the grass is always greener on the other side. Stick with what you have because in your fantasy your mystery person is perfect sauve and knows all the right things to say. So keep that fantasy. In reality, on the other hand, you say your in a great relationship so don't jepordize it for something that may turn out horrible. The fantasy will pass but hopefully your relationship will endure.
2006-06-16 00:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by in vino veritas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in a GREAT and LOVING relationship if you're asking this question and thinking about even going further than just dreaming.
Plus, you said you only saw a picture thus far. Pictures say a thousand words, but actually meeting and speaking to that person might make those thousand words incomprehensible.
2006-06-16 00:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question. Your in a great relationship and your happy are you really willing to screw that up by having a little one nigt stand, whats so wrong with your boyfriend that makes you want to fantasise about another guy?
2006-06-16 00:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to ruin a great happy relationship?
Fantasise at little..........it's 90% better than the real thing anyway!!!!!!
2006-06-16 00:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fantasise. if your relationship is great then it is not worth jeapordising for one night, not matter how fit the guy is. remember, not everyone looks the same in photos as they do in real life and people are also really differwent personality-wise when you are actually with them.
2006-06-16 06:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjinx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick an appropriate moment to tell my partner about the person who I had a crush on. I would reassure him that I was telling him because I wasn't going go with the crush and I trusted him completely.
Always try to sort out the relationship you are in before moving on, even for one night.
2006-06-16 00:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay where I am, and try to be happy there. The "grass is not always greener" on the other side. An occasional fantasy never hurt anybody I guess..........it adds a little spice. Good Luck!
2006-06-16 00:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you gain if you break a happy relationship for a night of fun? Think about it....?
2006-06-16 00:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋