How can trust and fidelity be made sure and solid in the face of fear, jealousy and envy?

Answer 1

I think it will be made clear in time, as it will take time to feel like you trust someone else, but as long as the two are serious about their feelings and are honest with eachother, then the other should not have a reason to worry.

Answer 2

Fear, jealousy and envy are born out of pride. Pride is the great sin that gives birth to all other sins. Fear is a sin, but it can be overcome through faith. The great problem is that most people put their faith in the wrong place---they put it in other people and in the things and institutions of the world. Faith is trust and fidelity is commitment. If your faith and commitment is not in the Lord Jesus Christ, then it is misplaced. God created you, the world and the universe. So, why should you put your faith and commitment in any one else but him? Jesusw is Lord and God. He loves you with a love that will never fail. So, why should you love anyone else before placing your love in him? He died for you, which means that he committed himself totally to you. So, why should you commit yourself to anyone but him? You trust and fidelity can be made sure and solid only if they are focused on Jesus, else the sins of fear, jealousy and envys shall preside over you.

Answer 3

Trust and fidelity has to do with love or being a good neighbor.

I'm used to the word "fidelity" being used in romantic probably marital relationships.

Being a good neighbor or the key to true love is selflessness.

Selflessness is achieved through yoga practice. Yoga practice begins with selfless labor.

Selflessness means turning away from base sense enjoyment and identification with the temporal.

There is a step by step process and there is a fast trac process. The fast trac requires accepting God as a person and crying to Him with all your heart every day.

Answer 4

Without a specific situation, you get generalized answers.

Basically it comes down to proving trustworthiness time after time after time after. . . . .

Complete honesty, openness, being so upfront it's beyond dispute for a good long time.

Trust is earned, not freely given. Once trust has been broken (my ex cheated on me for years and I've heard every lie there is from him) it's very difficult to regain, but not impossible. There are few I trust. I didn't realize it until I dated a guy who told 'white lies' consistently that I still look for signs. This is 10 years later. I still watch for missing links, things that don't add up, and inconsistencies. Because he told those lies I became as untrusting of him as I had been of my ex, without half the reason for it. The key is complete honesty. . .always.