How do i Deal with same-sex crushes?Im a guy?

Answer 1

Uhmm.... think hard, contemplate... and when you're ready, just accept the fact. Nothing wrong with being true to oneself.

Answer 2

You have to ask yourself first: Is it just a crush, an admiration for the guy because he has something admirable that you dont have? How strong is the feeling? Does it in anyway hinder your logical way of thinking? And does it in anyway change your perception of women? You have to reflect on yourself about how strong does the feeling go.

If its just a little admiration, everybody has them: men, women, the same. Some may just be a little embarassed to admit cuz of ego and the word "gay" is a really harsh label, but ive known a lot pf people who admitted liking and fantasizing about somebody of the same sex as they are, and i can very well say they're straight and dont have any psychological or identity problems.

However if its something that induces you to act, you'll have to take a step there. Its a very big decision and I dont think we as strangers are the kind of people you'd want to consult. Your actions and decisions will define your sexual orientation ultimately and, in some soceities, your freedom and your social status. But if its strong, its strong. You cant do anything about it, be yourself.

Answer 3

If you are a young man who finds himself in love with, or deeply attracted to, one of his male friends, it can feel very worrying. It may mean that you will turn out to be gay - though not necessarily so.

But what can you do about it? Well, you need to assess whether this man could possibly return your feelings. One way or another, this is often obvious.

For example, if he has shown considerable interest in girls - and maybe has a girlfriend - then it is very unlikely that he is going to want to have sex with you.

And, just as you would not force yourself sexually on a girl who happened to be your friend, even if you fancied her like crazy, neither should you approach your male friend sexually, unless he gives you any encouraging signs.

Of course, when you feel desperately in love and sexually charged up about a male friend this can be very difficult for you. But the sensible course of action is to keep your desires from him, and to try to discuss your feelings with an expert, or someone who you can trust. (See Further information, at the end of the factsheet.)

In time, if you are gay, you will find yourself seeking out like-minded individuals who are also attracted to men, and you will experiment with them - and probably fall in love too. But you will still want to stay close with your best, heterosexual friends. And the way to keep your straight friends is to avoid trying to have sex with them when they do not feel the same way as you do.

Answer 4

go tell the guy you like him. if you never act on your crushes, nothing will ever happen of them.

Answer 5

just relax & try to find interest in opposite sex for satisfaction. just remember, try & try untill u suceed & u will get satisfaction only from the opposit sex.

Answer 6

jus dont think of it

Answer 7

very gently