cant they love each other and fight with others only
2006-06-15 22:30:44 · 24 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you ever talked to a friend about your problems?
Spouses are friends. At the end of a day - it's the first person you talk to. The difference is; a spouse can't ignore you for a week...a spouse has to get into the same bed. So...most spouses won't tolerate a lot of garbage...they want it out and worked over before getting into that bed.
So if you come home and you're grumpy...your spouse is gonna get on your nerves pretty easy. And instead of ignoring you...your spouse is going to bring it on until it's all worked out.
Most fights are exactly because they love each other and wouldn't want to turn to anyone else. It's those that don't know how to fight, or communicate, that are problematic because they end up hurting each others feelings.
2006-06-15 22:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They're just like Tom and Jerry....sometimes they get a little too stressed up and it doesnt help that thayve been staying with each other for so long a time that they kind of get sick of each other no matter how much they love each other, and every trivial thing that comes out becomes an issue because its actually not about those trivial things but they just need some justification for fighting, like a flag or a banner so they know which side they be on and they know which stand to make but sometimes those stands are so ridiculous they dont even makes sense because fundamentally all they really wanted to do is fight so they can have something else to do with each. Basically, they just spend too much time with each other. Put them apart for some days and then they'll get back to each other hot and horny and jumps into a passionate, violent, hazardous love-making thats pretty much like what they show in the Discovery Channel.
2006-06-16 05:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh why this hype when husbands and wives fight?Dont frnds,relatives,siblings fight?
Its just that lovers are viewed with a larger than life picture.One is a hero,the other has to be Vamp,or the other way round.
Fighting,disharmony and disagreements are a part of any relation.
2006-06-16 06:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every man and women fight no matter what the issue is...i think if we didnt argue then i suppose were not normal!!! it is good to have a good row now and then as it clears things off your mind and then you make up by making love and thats the best part lol
fighting though i dont agree with it!!!why people want to hit someone or even hurt them its just not normal..they should take it out on a tree or something instaed of hurting the human race and animals come to think of that too
2006-06-16 05:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKED THE ----WITH OTHERS ONLY ----.I'M WORKING ON HUSBAND NUMBER 2 . WAS MARRIED TO NUMBER 1 HUSBAND -FOR 16 YEARS - A FIGHT FROM DAY 1 - HE LOVED TO FIGHT . EVERY DAY. WHAT A MESS. ---HOW NOT TO FIGHT ---- I TOLD NUMBER 2 HUSBAND - FROM THE START . IF A TIME COMES ,THAT WE START THAT FIGHTING THING . YOU ARE OUT OF HERE .I WILL PUT ALL OF YOUR THINGS IN A BOX .IN THE DRIVE WAY .AND YOU WILL GET A CALL FROM ME . HONEY . YOU NEED TO COME AND GET YOUR STUFF . IN CASE IT RAINS .AND THAT WILL BE THE END OF THAT . I HAVE HAD TO FIGHT MY WHOLE LIFE - AND I AM NOT GOING TO PUT UP WITH IT . THAT WAS 13 YEARS AGO . NO FIGHTS . LIFE'S TO SHORT ,TO PUT UP WITH THAT TRASH .
2006-06-16 05:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fights are healthy in a relationship because it makes u understand each other better and respect each others difference. the most important thing is handling it maturely so tht ur partner doesnt not feel pains instead he/she feels the correction intended.
god bless u
2006-06-16 06:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by damain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotion. Their very relationship is based upon emotion.
Get some time apart and work, each, 60 hours a week and you'll look forward to getting some fun together.
2006-06-16 05:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no husbands and wives fight and love at the same time.it s like teh relationship bteweenindia and pakistan............cant live without each other,yet will keep fighting
2006-06-16 05:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by sarita tiwari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they didn't fight then they couldn't make up. Make up sex is great too. It keeps the passion hot.
The ones that never fight just bottle up that irritation until it boils over and the have to get divorced.
2006-06-16 05:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with someone for such a long time, you're bound to fight with them. Nobody sees eye to eye all of the time.
2006-06-16 10:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋