Hi all, Doctors just told me that i'm expected to be a father of twins ... what should i do being a father, for my kids and for my wife.
2006-06-15 22:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by Aasif 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have 13 month old b/g twins. These were our first kids so I didn't know any better, but support is the biggest key to staying happy. You have to make a lot of sacrifices, but it's only for a couple of years and there is nothing more important than your kids IMHO. Help with feedings, baths, diapers, etc. It goes by so fast that the little things are so important. Good luck and welcome to the club!
2006-06-20 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by spelunker64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really a simple answer...support them with whatever means you have, and love them with all of your heart. If things go smoothly, they'll wind up being twice the work, but also twice the fun! As with any children, you should also give your wife a little "down time" on occasion...caring for two babies can surely get a bit stressful!
2006-06-16 01:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by medrecgal1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very good to your wife. Support her, and do anything that you can to make her feel beautiful and loved. Also, give her space when she wants it. Supporting your wife and doing the things that she asks will make the biggest difference before and after the pregnancy. It may not seem appreciated now, but in a year or so, when the dust settles she will realize how helpful you were.
2006-06-15 22:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by jal66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work hard, cut down some of your personal expenses to be able to save enough to cater for these children and their mother. You must also make ample time to support your wife in the house. I will also recommend you getting a nanny.
2006-06-16 00:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by jessica_abino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and take care of your responsibilities. You will find that twins will be the greatest thing you have ever experienced!
2006-06-15 23:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by angiedj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations!!! but,i think u should have a maid. my younger sisters are twins. 2 of my uncles also got twins. it really tiring but fun!
2006-06-15 22:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work twice as hard man!
Good Luck
2006-06-15 22:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look after your family with pleasure & responsibility with warm heartedness as both the mother & the children want & need your love & affection.
2006-06-15 22:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by tania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you work hard and HELP YOUR WIFE!!! you need her not to lift or help her follow doctors orders
2006-06-15 22:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Leilei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats...just always put your kids first...and start buying stuff now...2 of everything...
2006-06-15 22:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by feistylilone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋