2006-06-15 22:00:41 · 47 answers · asked by LINDA 3 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Yes I do, but I am working on the premise of not getting even .. I am getting ahead. Just kidding........ When you hold a grudge it makes the person you hold the grudge against very important in your life .So its pretty stupid .to do that . Concentrate on yourself and those you love and who love you and just move on .Besides its never quite as satisfying as you think it will be.
2006-06-24 06:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't have a grudge against someone right now.
I've made a conscious effort to NOT hold grudges because I've seen that they lead nowhere. They're emotionally constricting and draining and divert energy from more positive pursuits.
2006-06-25 05:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the point of holding a grudge. i was told you have to take care of things in the beginning while the problem is still a sapling, because if you give it time to grow into a tree, you will have big problems that are impossible to yank out. if you "hold" a grudge you are only holding on to something that needs to be let go of. NO?
2006-06-29 01:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Carmella R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a male(not a man) that I was naieve enough to marry, that had mental problems and hurt my children. He killed himself when he learned he was going to be arrested for his crimes so I never got a chance to get revenge in any form. I wouldn't hold a grudge against anyone that bothered me but no one messes with my kids.
2006-06-29 04:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never hold grudges against anyone. The reason why is because if you do and something bad happens to them then you have a gulity consience
2006-06-30 07:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by angeldustme001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a grudge, but my husband is getting on the one nerve I have left after a very hectic day.
2006-06-28 12:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those who impose marxist concepts upon Americans. Basically, the communists of America. NEA, ACLU, A.N.S.W.E.R. CAIR, All the lefty politicians and Republican sell outs. Pretty damn disturbed about President Bush too regarding immigration and Trade that undermines America's well being and security.
2006-06-22 13:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jen K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-28 11:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did once. but found out that it only hurt me. So I don't any more. Grudges can be bad for your health.
2006-06-27 04:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by dragon88201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, when we hold grudges we only hurt ourselves. It is healing and freeing to forgive others when they have wronged us. The word of God sais if we don't forgive others we will not be forgiven
2006-06-27 11:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Drgnflyangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋