can a homosexual man change his preferences?
2006-06-15 21:46:48 · 4 answers · asked by needof helpman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I doubt it. If you're truly homosexual then I don't think you can change your preference. I think some people aren't truly homosexual... so if you only have "tendancies" then I don't know... you'd have to figure that out.
2006-06-15 21:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by ATerribleIdea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible to control homosexual tendencies. Every man has them but only differs on the extent from man to man. I know I had some crush on a guy becuz he seems to have what I am lacking and know could never have (height), and i know damn well that I have although i am one hundred and one percent sure that i am a woman-lover and straight as a rule. But it is possible to control homesexual actions through your decisions. If you have a sexual tendency strong enough to put you in front of a crossroad, you'll have to make a decision there. Its not the tendency or feelings that makes you homosexual, its what you do with those tendencies. I am sure this is the same for women and lesbians, because I know a lot of female friends who fantasize about making out with our other female friends and things that would just eb considered homosexual tendencies. Vut they do remain as fantasy and if they ever did it, im sure theres some kind of emotional wall there that prevents it from dwelling too much into your orientation. Therefore, a homosexual man cannot control his emotional preferences or tendencies, but he can control his actions.
2006-06-15 21:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can. Every one is responsible for ones thinking and thoughts and the free will allows you to decide and think and of course behave in a certain ways, Some ways of behaviours are not accepted at all and why some people say that they are homosexual takes too long to tell here. Homosexuality is not an illness as far as I know, but more a form of behaviour.
Remember: You can decide and think what you want too and decide your behaviours after your own mind and have it related to the society you are living in.
2006-06-15 22:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Realname: Robert Siikiniemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can change his behavior, but not his underlying desires. That is something that you're born with. Once gay, always gay.
2006-06-15 21:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋