2006-06-15 21:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask a gay
2006-06-15 23:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
This might not be a politically correct answer, but I'm basing it on gay people I know. Sometimes "gay" is the way you started out. In that case, you know somewhere deep inside of yourself that you're gay. That is, little or no sexual interest for the opposite sex, or even feeling kind of nauseated with contact with the opposite sex. Then, there actually are people who choose it as a lifestyle. [Ducking for cover..] There actually are people who "prefer" the same sex, but who have done the opposite sex, and might do it in the future. These people might define love and the sexual expression of it differently. That is, if they fall in love with a same-sex person, then, fine they learn how to have sex with them and please them. OTOH, if they are in love with opposite sex, they do the same thing. See? It's all about pleasing the person you're in love with. So, either you're "born that way", or you learn to be that way. Now you need to decide which you are :-) How you define it, determines whether you're "gay" or whether you are simply flexible in your sexual preferences.
HTH!
2006-06-15 21:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess Elaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is gay and he said he knew it since 2nd grade. He said he tried hard to hold back his feelings of having crushes on the other boys but to no avail... I personally think there are some genetics in it...
2006-06-15 21:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by cutienoz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way you started to have feelings for the opposite sex ..I guess...it must be just after puberty
2006-06-15 21:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't like any girls by the time there in 6th grade
2006-06-15 21:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel simply during sexual intercourse
2006-06-15 21:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by chriz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know either.
2006-06-15 21:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by polly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhhhhhhh...you just know...how do you know if you are male or female??????????????? You just know.
2006-06-15 21:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋