she isa lunatic and says she will go ina depression and threatens him of commiting suicide he stops talking to hert.he has had sex wth her but he doesnt chave it me.she has asked him not to.hhas become puppet in her hands. i am not well and we had to go the doctor,but he did not go as she had asked him not to....help me
2006-06-15 21:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by thefreebird12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off if a woman is willing to kill herself over a man that is not lawfully hers. Then something is seriously wrong with her, and i doubt there is anything he can do to change that.
Giving into her demands is only giving her false hopes of one day he'll be with her. If he wants to get rid of her he needs to cut all ties and walk away. If shes smart she'll get the point. There is no reason for you or your husband to be worried about his former mistress. you two have alot to work out.
I commend you for staying with him. If it were me i would of left his *** to be with her. You love him and dont let no silly little girl break that. Tell him to be a man and end it for the best of both of you.
I hope he gets his stuff together and i hope that girl gets the point that she isnt needed.
Good Luck Love.
2006-06-15 21:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by justsoglam101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
emotional blackmail? I totally agree with the guy above me. A guy can't be emotionally black mailed unless he wants to be with her or actually cares about her. If he does, I'm sorry, but it's over between the two of you.
I'm sorry you are not well, I hope you have support from your family.
2006-06-16 04:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by ATerribleIdea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frnd,, this is a serious issue. i can try to help u. but Suicide is a serious crime. i wud suggest u to talk with HIM.
a guy cant be blackmailed by a girl... he can come out of it if he wants to.
m a guy... so i can tell u this...
AND if u think problem is serious than see a psychiatrist
C ya frnd.... can mail me in case u want to........
2006-06-16 04:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by neo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with this cheating dog??? He sure does NOT care about you, get a lawyer and take him for everything, kick him to the curb and find someone who REALLY loves you...The guy you are with is a real dirt bag....
2006-06-16 04:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds like she is crazy! You and YOUR husband both need to tell her that their relationship is over, I no it will be hard but she has to stop and your husband has to say something, otherwise, u need to tell him to make a choice.
2006-06-16 04:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd meet with the girl...in no uncertain terms...and tell her what is up.....I'd totallly tell her...her little scheme isn't working.....and also make sure this is not some story your hubby is making up ( to continue to see her)...been there, done that>>>>>>.so long ago...be wise.
2006-06-16 04:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the solution is easy. DUMP HIM and stop stressing over this. once a cheater always a cheater, believe me.
2006-06-19 00:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already know about it there is nothing left to threaten him with
2006-06-16 04:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relocate so she can't contact u or watever..then don't mind her its not ur fault if sumthing happened to her ...she won't do it anyway...believe me..
2006-06-16 04:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋