this is straight from the heart and the 100% truth. Big, medium, small, perky, flat, it makes no difference as long as the woman feels good about herself and her body. If you feel okay with yourself then you are truly sexy and will have no problem getting a good man. If you meet a man who likes you for the size of your breasts what kind of person is he. Do you judge men on the size of their penis, or judge them on how they treat you and how you feel when you are around them? Be kind and accept yourself, and love will find you.
2006-06-15 21:27:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop right there!!!!!
Yes, if you have big boobs, you will attract a lot of blokes. More men will gawp at you, so you will get more attention. And yes, they will have sex with you. Is that really what you want?
Or do you want to find a man who will love you and desire you? Because that doesn't depend on boob size.
In fact, the sort of bloke you are likely to attract if you have bigger boobs will have sex with you and then complain that your boobs aren't natural.
Life's a ***** - and our culture is getting more and more looksist, but the real quality of life is beneath the outward appearance. Trust me, it really is.
It is NOT how you look that will get you the right relationship, it is how you feel inside.
If you really feel that your body is seriously out of proportion, start by doing anything you can to improve the way you look naturally. Keep fir with a healthy diet, not too much smoking or booze, and some more exercise. Then you'll have a natural glow and will attract blokes as simply as that!!
A boob job is an option, but please try other things as well. And it costs an lot and it hurts like hell, and sometimes there are complications. (I know, as I have had one!! It did improve the way I felt about how I looked, but it didn't improve my relationships. That is something that can only happen from within)
There are things you can do to increae your self esteem. I am a health professional and I advise you to think about boosting your self esteem before you boost your boob size.
It really is true that you need to love yourself before someone else will love you.
There are books on boosting self esteem (browse a branch of WH Smith or better still, Amazon.co.uk. Consider soem counselling (in UK often possible to have a few sessions free if you ask your doctor)
Buy yourself a writing book and write ten things you like about your inner qualities. The ten things you like NOW about the way you look. Say these things every day. Notice any patterns of negative thinking and change them - so instead of saying "I can't find myself a bloke" you say to yourself "I am a healthy, attractive woman and I am finding myself the right bloke!"
It doesn't happen over night, but your self esteem will improve and you will find the right bloke.
2006-06-15 21:38:32
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answered by Suzita 6
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Any size boobs are okay. But there is nothing more wretchedly and pathetically disorienting than a breast augmentation gone awry. The worst one I have seen was in Los Angeles. At first glance, I thought they were breasts with no nipples. Well, the boob job had sorta "turn signaled" the nipples. The nipples were on the sides of the breasts. It was astounding. Pretty girl- which begs the question: Why would she electively savage her body like that? There's one answer, of course. Girls adore having their **** stared at (vanity, attention, worship). And I stared, alright. I was a tit freak show when her top came off. She saw the expression on my face. I didn't get laid because of the face I made. It would be the face anyone would make if they saw a dog throw up or a baboon's *** in estrus. You are sorta taken back; your eyes glaze over and your jaw drops. You stop whatever you are doing and you are trying to figure out the mammary. The chick doesn't dig it when she feels you are staring at her **** like they are twin Frankenstein monsters.
2006-06-15 22:42:48
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answered by Anonymous
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The only thing worse than suicide is getting a job done on your body because you want to get a man.What i think you should be getting is how to improve your self esteem.Face it; a man that like you for the size of your boobs will never stay with you and you will always want to do anything he asks just so you can keep him and all he will be interested in will be your boobs and S**, but what about looking fo someone who likes you for being you,just the way you are.
Its amazing so many women think they have to change themselves before men can accept them,i am willing to believe that there are men who like you the way you are but you seem to like those that are wrong for you;
those who only love big boobs and see nothing good in you.because you do not have the size they want
Personally i think fake boobs look horrible, no offense to ladies who have them but i think they just stand like two balloons. i mean a natural breast will respond and react to a carress by becoming firm but the fake breast are almost always firm.
I Know you must have seen JJ,Marie Carey etc... no offense to their fans but they seem to have ballons on their chest.
But look at ally Mcbeil she is almost flat on the chestand she is an actress please Gurl i think you should get to loving and accepting yourself the way you are .
Big boobs will attract a bloke but it does not guarantee that the Bloke will stay.
2006-06-15 22:42:27
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answered by kul 2
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Men have different tastes. Some prefer big boobs and otheres prefer fried eggs. The question you need to ask yourself is are you considering it for yourself and own confidence or for others?
I would never contemplate plastic surgery just to impress men and I think theres a name for it I think its body dismorphia??
A decent plastic surgeon will refuse to do the operation if those are your reasons anyway.
Just make sure, if you decide to go ahead, that you research the surgeon and go to a respectable clinic.
As for increasing your chances, I can't answer that, and if you just want a guy to be with you for your boobs then go ahead. I hope there is more to you than that.
2006-06-15 21:47:16
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answered by pinkruth1976 3
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Many things attract men from looks, to nice body parts to good sense of humor, strong woman or whatever. If you want to attract a guy with just boobs you'll get the wrong guy. I like boobs like any other guy but prefer real ones as opposed to store bought ones. I don't care if their small or big as long as their soft! Try getting a guy with what you got first and be confident it changes everything! Men don't want a woman with low self esteem because it means more problems down the road. Good Luck!
2006-06-15 21:28:47
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answered by andrephoenix 4
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Trust me kid, getting a boob job will not increase your chances of getting a bloke. You might need to work on other aspects of your personality for that.
But it will get people to stare at your chest more often. If that's what you want then go right ahead.
2006-06-15 22:00:08
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answered by Cain 4
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no way would i get a boob jog to get a man ,because if your boobs is what caused you get him ,, well then he more than likely is a shallow person , and you don't want someone that cant only see you from the outside , and what you look like , because id you do that's all he will ever see in you, and as far as the size of a woman's boobs there are men that likes big boobs , it makes a woman look like a woman and not a little girl ,
2006-06-15 21:35:44
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answered by lady 2
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never get a boob job just to get a bloke not all men like false breasts. Be happy within yourself and you are more likely to find a good partner who likes you for your personality not because you will have huge boobs!
2006-06-15 21:25:50
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answered by itsme 3
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There are two types of men those who like boobs and those who like the ***.There are more boob man then *** man (that just sounds weird). But getting your boobs done must be for you first. If you think YOU will feel more beautiful and femine with them. But Getting it done for guys is not a good enough reason for me. You'll score for sure but I can't say for a good realtionship
2006-06-15 21:26:26
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answered by Yves L 2
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Yes - very much.
Big boobs get more attention than smaller ones for sure, but just bigger not too big and also being big is not just enough, but the shape needs to be good too. Saggy ones do not get that kind of attention.
There is nothing like getting a handful of flesh ;-)
2006-06-15 21:28:31
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answered by Mohan 4
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