Is it true that love die or finishes after marrige??If yes then how can we keep it alive??...Prevent it not to finish or die??
2006-06-15 20:08:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Smiles 'n' Tears, Giggles 'n' Laughs, Late nite calls 'n' Cute fotographs, ill b rite here till da day of ma death best friends forever till ma very last breath!!
2006-06-23 22:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you stop talking you hit problems, for some people talking about their wedding is the only conversation after the event meaning love was enough, maybe just bordom of the routine.
to keep love alive stuill go on 'dates'with each other as most couples get married and thats it. also find things you enjoy separetly as too much time together can cause arguments.
methinks the above answer is'nt true love as getting on your kneews pleases ionly him, wouls suggest she finds a man who does't need to be blown to feel loved!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 03:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by thebluehaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT true that love dies after marriage! I love my husband so much and he loves me. It's so obvious to everyone that knows us too. My husband and I are best friends and we enjoy each other's company very much. Also if anyone tells you that married sex isn't any good just isn't doing it right!
The best marital advice I ever got was that marriage is not 50/50
it is 100%/100% - do not keep scores. Put everything into your marriage except expectations on the other person.
2006-06-16 03:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it dies unless you really work hard at keeping it alive. You need a lot of communication. You need to keep your s*xual relationship alive. Try to keep in mind some of the things you did when you were dating and do them after you get married. You can keep it alive if you work really hard at it. Marriage is like a garden if you don't work at it the garden becomes all weeds. If you work at it the garden becomes beautiful with lush rich flowers.
2006-06-16 03:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by kukkanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married yet. But I have a girl I love profoundly. I see marriage as a license to live together in society. I assign no value to it else than that its the love that truly make me bind me to my partner. It would grow unhindered when we could spend more time with each other in the name of marriage. It might look that experiencing anything too much would make one feel bored. But finding simple and little ways to decorate and redecorate life would always makes it blissful. If you are married.... Please forget that you are married even after UR married. Behave like teen aged lovers who look up on love with wide eyes everyday. Ignore not simple things your partner respects and loves. After that ... believe me... You would never get bored of your spouse
2006-06-16 04:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by cheenuray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt die out. its just that u take ur partner for granted and stop doing stuff that u would do while u were dating, like but a gift or have a surprise for him/her.
To reignite the love/passion start treating your spouce as if u are dating and spend more time on making the other person feel special.
2006-06-16 03:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Razor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love lives on in you forever, its just that sometimes its elusive to the owner that it's there. If you live your life to it's fullest with no regrets and keep doing what makes you most happy then you'll never loose sight of love. This year makes 18 years of married bliss for me.
2006-06-16 03:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
Hi dear,
True Love never die, its something like the everlasting God.
but if we are talking about the humanities relationships, sometimes the emotions are able to change , but its just reaction .
we can keep the love forever by satisfied, respect, communicate , co-operate and forgive your partner, let her/him feel that she/he is the last one in your life.( love is given and forgiven), but don't tell lies or pretend.
one more thing , the materialists are able to lose their loves easily, don’t mix between your heart and your wallet, avoid self -interest in love , recognize only on your partner , ( don’t put your heart in your wallet).
have a nice Love .
2006-06-16 03:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by gaiety65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that the two of you remain best friends. Friends first, lovers second. Then the love won't fade away. Also, explore life with eachother, travel a lot, do exciting adventurous things... fun exciting experiences create more of a bond.
2006-06-16 03:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Yankee Trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything needs nurturing to keep it alive .... marriage is a great thing but it defianlty has its ups and downs thats for sure .. it always takes work u learn something new everyday .. keep an open mind .. and always communicate ..and maybe try not to be controlling ..dont try to change the person you married .Be yourself , have fun ...and enjoy life cuz you only live it once!!
2006-06-16 03:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by tainted.luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to die after marriage. but remember it does change. you don't always feel "in love" but still love them. some times its up and down, remember the ups and forget the downs.the trick is don't look outside you marriage for love "Happiness is not getting what you want, its wanting what you got."
2006-06-16 03:30:04 · answer #11 · answered by maxxspeedist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋