she just like so annoys me, but when i tell my story shes just like bla, bla, bla... i want to tell her that i hate that but i dont want to hurt her feeling what should i do...?
2006-06-15 19:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
gradually stop seeing her and make new friend circle and have fun if she ever ask u why Ur not visiting say i m little busy
2006-06-15 19:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by torraks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to be upfront with this 'friend', some people dont realise their behaviour is letting them down.
Be honest with her, if she cant recognise where she's going wrong, then maybe u dont need this type of person in ur life.
I don know how long u have been mates, but some people do what u have described just 2 make themselves feel better, she may have self esteem issues.
in which case mayb u shud do something to give urselves both a boost, catch sum joke and/or 2 destress
Hope u get things sorted tho. Good luck x
2006-06-15 20:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by BlueMorpho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! You don't like being treated this way so don't put up with it and tell her clearly to do her own work! She's not a baby so she should stop behaving like one. If she was a 'friend' then she wouldn't expect you to run around after her and you shouldn't be walked all over by someone who obviously has no respect for you! She sounds spoilt, selfish and lazy..tell her you're not going to be her slave anymore and that you dislike her for the way she treats you! How you tell her depends on if you still want her as a friend or if you've really had enough of her now!?
2006-06-15 20:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by xsammyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong if u do a few things for her, but she shouldnt take advantage of that and treat u as a maid as u said, talk to her and tell her its getting too much.
2006-06-15 23:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend sounds like a bully to me-- expecting you to do everything for her-- just tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore== what story do u want to tell-- u can tell us i'm sure we will listen
2006-06-15 20:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower yourself to that extend, does she really cares about you?.You are not her maid anyway and she should also learn to listen to you or stop this friendship she is only using you for her own benefits.
2006-06-15 20:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her. It might make her upset but in the long run being honest would be better for the both of you.
2006-06-15 19:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she asks/demands you do something tell her NO. It sounds like she's taking advantage of you.
2006-06-21 01:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having anything to do with her until she starts treating you with some respect...
2006-06-15 20:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋