SHould you and your husband go out dancing, late at night, you have kids, and are married, this includes the bar, getting drunk.
2006-06-15 19:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it goes like this, my girlfriends mom goes out dancing, by herslef! and now we find out that shes cheating on her husband, and we are figuring out if thats wrong or not. I tell her that its not right when your mom goes by herslef!
2006-06-15 19:55:36 · update #1
yes. you spend all your time working doing house work raising children yous deserve a night off to have fun. just don't do it to often and it would be fine.
Have fun and enjoy your night out,.
2006-06-15 19:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like others stated... just because you are 40 , married and have children does not mean that you should not go out dancing!! however.. i do know alot of wives that go out dancing at bars without the husbands THAT DO NOT CHEAT, BUT then again there are THE FEW WIVES THAT DO CHEAT. As long as the mom or dad or which ever is taking care of home the home life then there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-19 03:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hard Core Dance Poles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!!! My husband and I go out every so often, note the every so often. We get a family member to watch the kids overnight and go out to dinner, then a movie, then the bar, dance, drink, go have some fun out in the country and sleep it off. Then go get the kids. Just because were older doesn't mean we can't feel a little rebellious and it makes our marriage exciting!
2006-06-16 03:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by lifeisgrand99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to do it together, you absolutely need to have a life outside of being parents. Getting drunk, not such a good idea, you have children who need you around the clock. Been there, hard to be a good mom with a hangover. Your children do not need to know what you do with your time, so that you are parents doesn't matter. Have a blast!
2006-06-16 04:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by lisaellyn4037 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the children are safely supervised, sure once a week for a few hours, don't drink too much, come home when you said you would. Check in with your kids from time to time.. make sure they're ok with it.
Remember you're laying the ground work for when it's their turn.
ciao
2006-06-16 02:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he shouldn't if he does that means he really don't love look at me I've been looking for love and can't find it I wish I was married with kids it would make me a very happy man!
2006-06-16 02:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by silverghost121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not, you are adults have lived your life and raised your kids, go out have fun. as long as you dont get too drunnk that you end up in jail or something, take a cap home and live life, you two deserve it!!!
2006-06-16 02:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! life doesn't stop just because you have children...as long as your doing your job as a parent why not go out and have some fun? you're only as old as you feel!!!
2006-06-16 03:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not every night, Bra! But once in a while shouldn't hurt! You have to live your lives too right?
Aloha!
2006-06-16 02:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't condone cheating, but she is an adult and needs to find her own way through life...
2006-06-23 02:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by eldertrouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋